Need some advice

[Taro83]

Here is the deal, i have been kinda seeing a girl who actually works and lives in the same place, she clearly likes me, i've been testing her, everything was going well, but i taked my time to move to the kiss close, and everyone in work were saying we hooked up already, but she didnt cared about it... but then, last night i made my move, and she stoped me and said that she didnt thought it was a good idea... i know i should have just kissed her but i asked why, she didnt respon right away took a few seconds and then she said i like you only as a friend, witch i know is not true... i said i dont belive that and then again she said she didnt think it was a good idea, i wasnt in the mood of getting in a discussion so i just said wetheaver and she said sorry and we parted...

The deal is that a few minutes before she was in the party and i was staring at her hands because she was clearly nervous but she tought i was staring at her breast so she smiled at me and unziped her coat so i could have a better view... then she said she was bored and i should do something about it, so i waited for her to leave, followed her and made my move...

Ok what i want to know is what i should do now... because she is going to be only for two more weeks around... should i confront her and call on all of her bull**** or should i play it cool like nothing happened... im not in love with her or anything but i want to spend some time with her because is kinda hard to get women where i am know...

Thanks in advance!!!

 

[sodbuster]

Whatever, she's onlly going to be around for 2 weeks right? How much effort are you willing to put in for a short term fling? Do what you want to do[short of rape] because it really doesn't matter. She just may not be up for a one night stand. I KNOW they'll do it on spring break-it doesn't count as a sexual encounter[womens logic],but usually, they like to think there is a possibility of a relationship,leading to marriage[fooling themselves, so they don't look like sluts in their mind].

Who knows-she may actually BE a decent woman we keep hearing about

 

[dereklovesugly]

yeah. forget about her and if she likes you she'll talk to you. Meet other girls. She's gonna be there for 2 weeks. What is a couple times of sex really worth?

Old me would've kept on this girl and kept trying to bang her but as of late I've been looking for a *gasp* girlfriend....is anyone else having this "problem"? lol

 

[Taro83]

Yes, thats the only thing, she may actually be a decent woman, and you never know whats going to happen... besides, as i said she is leaving, but im leaving as well at almost the same time, and i dont really dont know where... so it could possible work for something more than just sex...

I wish i could meet other girls, like i said where am i now is almost impossible...

What doesnt make any sense is the way she acted last night, and im really tempted jsut to confront her and let her know that im not beliving her i like you as friend... because is ****ing stupid...

 

[thewickedm]

Calling her on her bull**** will just make you come off as ultra needy. I know you need some ass, but you need to play it cool but not cold. Take your time, act (if you have to) like her rejection did not affect you and build up the interest again. If she rejects you again, well. you'll be better off jerking urself off to some videos

 

[Taro83]

Yeah well, i wasnt going to put it in that way, the idea was just letting her know that i know better, that im not just another dumb that she can play like that...

And i think if i do it the right way i wont necessary will come off as ultra needy... Because im not really that way anyway, im not that worried about having her or not, but im pissed off that she gave me THAT excuse...

 

[jdollarthegreat]

yeah. forget about her and if she likes you she'll talk to you. Meet other girls. She's gonna be there for 2 weeks. What is a couple times of sex really worth?

Old me would've kept on this girl and kept trying to bang her but as of late I've been looking for a *gasp* girlfriend....is anyone else having this "problem"? lol

Lol i agree with this one. Back in the day I woulda never let that fly and I woulda did everything short of rape to try and have that ho. Shes only there for 2 weeks so beast on her lol. But na if you like her like as a gf type then the best thing to do is let her come to you like derek said.