"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok i have this friend that is really hot. And i'm goin to be watching some movies with her at her place.I'm pretty into her and i think she's into me as well.

Any suggestions on the movies that i should rent with her or what i should do.

I'm worried that if i make a move it could mess alot of stuff up. Like what could i do just to find out if she is actually into me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know how your relationship with her is up to this point, but...

I am usually very optimist about these opportunities. If she invited you into her place to watch a movie, especially only you and her, there is a pretty good chance that she likes you. I always go with romantic comedy, works like a charm. During your movie date, test the water and see what it leads. Don't be afraid to make a move on her because if you succeed, great. If you don't, then at least you know that you are going no where with her and focus your time and effort on someone else.
 
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yeah, just go for it man and find out
 
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