"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need some advice

Westwind

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Ok i have this friend that is really hot. And i'm goin to be watching some movies with her at her place.I'm pretty into her and i think she's into me as well.

Any suggestions on the movies that i should rent with her or what i should do.

I'm worried that if i make a move it could mess alot of stuff up. Like what could i do just to find out if she is actually into me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't know how your relationship with her is up to this point, but...

I am usually very optimist about these opportunities. If she invited you into her place to watch a movie, especially only you and her, there is a pretty good chance that she likes you. I always go with romantic comedy, works like a charm. During your movie date, test the water and see what it leads. Don't be afraid to make a move on her because if you succeed, great. If you don't, then at least you know that you are going no where with her and focus your time and effort on someone else.
 

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yeah, just go for it man and find out
 
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