Need some advice.

[MoBo]

Back last summer I was big into reading stuff that would help my "game" and I really wanted to do the "noobie mission" from over at MM forums, but I couldn't ever get a friend of mine to do it with me, and I don't have my car yet. So I let my interest in the game die down.

Lately I have been wanting to get back in this stuff, but I kinda have a dilemma. I'm starting to feel like it would be wrong for me to do this stuff, because I'm not being myself, I 'm being what someone else says I should be like. I mean, I would love to go out with hot chicks and what not, but not at the cost of me not being able to be myself or her not liking me for me. What do you guys have to say?

(I'm not looking to dog on this stuff, if anything I want to be convinced to still learn it, I just want some kinda reassurance)

P.S. I watched a video with a guy trying to pick up some chicks using MM and it was horrible, sounded completely canned, as do other stories I hear, they seem fake. Would it just be better for me to try to approach girls without learning game from any PUG's and just develop my own way of getting with girls?

 

[WesCottII]

I get girls all the time and I'm not affiliated to any "method"

What I found work was constant self improvement, life YOUR life, and the girls will come.

I wanted to be funny, so I found out how to be.
I wanted to be buff, so I learned.

It's not about "you or not you" it's about improving you, so you're a better you.

 

[MoBo]

Actually I was reading about methods, and I read about David DeAngelou or w/e his name is and his ****y + Funny thing, that thing I like a lot because that is how I am naturally, but I never do that around women. So I might read more about the ****y + Funny thing, just because it sounds natural for me to do it, and I wouldn't feel like I was being a "fake" me.