Need some advice quick

[ezio]

to cut a long story short my ex/oneitis is back. the same girl who brought me to this site. the reason she broke up with me was that i was too young for her, she is 27/28yrs and i am 24. after the break up she tried to friendzone me but i was having none of that. i discovered this site, stepped up my game and now for whatever reason she's back like nothing happened..lighting up my phone with an insane amount of msgs and calls daily.

she is ****ing hot so i wouldnt mind having her back but the fact is none of the issues that led to the first breakup have been resolved..she's still older than i am, i dont have my own place, and i don't have a well paying job yet.
even if we do get back together, when the time comes she'll have to make a decision and i bet i will be the one getting the short end of the stick once again.

is it worth being in a relationship which u know for certain will eventually end badly for you? kinda sucks to be me right now lol

Edit: since 18, all my relationships have been with girls older than me, maybe i have unresolved mommy issues but who give a ****

 

[dbx]

I'm in the middle of losing my gf and I'd get back with her in a second even if I knew it would end badly for me.

I don't think age matters, so find it difficult to believe it was purely down to that. it could just be she realised her mistake? how long has it been since you broke up?

if you think you can control your feelings, go for it. if you think your game is good enough to gain control, go for it. if you're going to be a crying mess for weeks if it ends and you're sure it'll end sooner rather than later, it may not be worth it.

whatever your gut feeling is, go with it.

 

[ezio]

we broke up abt 8 months ago, with regard to the age, she is approaching her late twenty so she is probably considering her market value and thinking of settling down real quick before she hits the wall..my game is much improved, no more pedestals and all that bs, i think she has noticed it too. her exact words last time we spoke were I dont think i've ever noticed this side of your personality lol..but i'm still undecided, maybe i'll give it a try and see how it goes

 

[Tenzen]

bang her, whats this rush to start another relationship with her. No reason for that considering she broke up with you .She should understand ur not jumping into a relationship with her right off the bat, but that shouldnt stop you from getting laid. enjoy

 

[bigneil]

Yes, 6-12 months seems to be when they come back. Too long to wait around.

Go in with a clean slate. Never make her feel guilty about anything she did. If you both grew and learned from your mistakes you can have a good relationship now. Of course it probably won't work, but what relationships probably will?