"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok guys there is this girl that i've known for years, I met her about 4 years ago. We were just kinda friends for a few weeks then I lost contact with her until maybe a year, probably less, ago.
Since then I talked to her atleast a few times a week for a while, until recently(few months) when I really haven't talked to her at all. Only when I see her at work. So really we're more like acquaintences than friends.
Recently i've been wanting to ask her out, but I don't really know the way to go about it. The only time I talk to her is when I see her where she works, I have her phone number but never call her.
Basically, she is the perfect girl. I don't know if she's single or not, but probably not. How would I go about finding this out without being obvious? Or do I want it to be obvious? If I find out she's single how should I ask her out, at work or over the phone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How did you hear about this site in the first place, there are tons and tons of articles about how to approach, another generic useless post.
 
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Don’t be rude this guy doesn’t know his ass from his elbow and just because you do you want to criticize him you piece of s**t. Everyone’s situation is different he wants some personal advice so let him have it.

OK now as for you in the post you said this girl is perfect stop thinking like that man no girl is perfect and the more you think that the more inferior you will feel and the more intimidated you will be by her. If you think like that you will never get her she has her flaws just like everybody else till you accept that you shouldn’t try to pursue a relationship with her.

That being said you yourself said your just acquaintances. So you can’t ask her out yet you got to build a relationship with her at work talk to her be C&F use Kino all tips are in the DJ bible. Also never ask her out like this because I bet this is what you were thinking "do you want to go out with me?". Instead when your at work talking to her bring up a movie that’s playing at the movies than say "ill take you out to watch that this Saturday" so its not a formal date but you have 1 on 1 time to get to know her and to be mysterious ect ect. But you have to read the bible so you know how to use Kino and c&f and how to be mysterious.

Also you sound like a friend of mine are you Mark?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I feel you man yeah i'm not mark.
Thanks for the help.
 
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