"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok guys there is this girl that i've known for years, I met her about 4 years ago. We were just kinda friends for a few weeks then I lost contact with her until maybe a year, probably less, ago.
Since then I talked to her atleast a few times a week for a while, until recently(few months) when I really haven't talked to her at all. Only when I see her at work. So really we're more like acquaintences than friends.
Recently i've been wanting to ask her out, but I don't really know the way to go about it. The only time I talk to her is when I see her where she works, I have her phone number but never call her.
Basically, she is the perfect girl. I don't know if she's single or not, but probably not. How would I go about finding this out without being obvious? Or do I want it to be obvious? If I find out she's single how should I ask her out, at work or over the phone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How did you hear about this site in the first place, there are tons and tons of articles about how to approach, another generic useless post.
 
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Don’t be rude this guy doesn’t know his ass from his elbow and just because you do you want to criticize him you piece of s**t. Everyone’s situation is different he wants some personal advice so let him have it.

OK now as for you in the post you said this girl is perfect stop thinking like that man no girl is perfect and the more you think that the more inferior you will feel and the more intimidated you will be by her. If you think like that you will never get her she has her flaws just like everybody else till you accept that you shouldn’t try to pursue a relationship with her.

That being said you yourself said your just acquaintances. So you can’t ask her out yet you got to build a relationship with her at work talk to her be C&F use Kino all tips are in the DJ bible. Also never ask her out like this because I bet this is what you were thinking "do you want to go out with me?". Instead when your at work talking to her bring up a movie that’s playing at the movies than say "ill take you out to watch that this Saturday" so its not a formal date but you have 1 on 1 time to get to know her and to be mysterious ect ect. But you have to read the bible so you know how to use Kino and c&f and how to be mysterious.

Also you sound like a friend of mine are you Mark?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I feel you man yeah i'm not mark.
Thanks for the help.
 
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