fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
So this is a rant/ situation i need some advice on. Im 25 and am learning the family business. My father runs it and he is a retierd Colonel from the Army. I also have a long military background so we are both very stuborn and set in our ways and it often leads to us butting heads.
Well one of the things i have to do is get my CDL wich is a commercial drivers licence. Due to being so busy i have not had time lately but have tried in the past but never passed. It is a tough test but not impossible. Anyway lately my sister and mother have been making him mad and its coming down on me.
Given I know im not perfect and do make misteaks every now and then but not big ones that warrent the way he is treating me. Every morning he comes in with his ass on his shoulders and ands starts *****ing at me about stuff outside of work and with work that he as messed up or someone else has messed up.
Today he is out of town but he lost some keys to a building and keeps saying it was me that lost them. I pulled oup the camera footage from the day they got lost and he walks out and leaves with the keys. I have not told him yet but our convo ended with him yelling and saying i have a combative attitude etc and he hung up.
But its like anything that go's wrong be it my misteak or someone elses is my fault and i catch the heat for it then comes the *****ing out about the stuff outside of work. The other day i had to leave before i hit him, and its not getting any better each day. Im at the point to where i cant do anything outside of here fun or he will hold it aginst me and say i need to focus on work. And when i am at work he brings things my mom has done or my sister has done and uses them as a reason the give me hell. Any advice guys? maybe some of you have worked for family and have been here before.
Well one of the things i have to do is get my CDL wich is a commercial drivers licence. Due to being so busy i have not had time lately but have tried in the past but never passed. It is a tough test but not impossible. Anyway lately my sister and mother have been making him mad and its coming down on me.
Given I know im not perfect and do make misteaks every now and then but not big ones that warrent the way he is treating me. Every morning he comes in with his ass on his shoulders and ands starts *****ing at me about stuff outside of work and with work that he as messed up or someone else has messed up.
Today he is out of town but he lost some keys to a building and keeps saying it was me that lost them. I pulled oup the camera footage from the day they got lost and he walks out and leaves with the keys. I have not told him yet but our convo ended with him yelling and saying i have a combative attitude etc and he hung up.
But its like anything that go's wrong be it my misteak or someone elses is my fault and i catch the heat for it then comes the *****ing out about the stuff outside of work. The other day i had to leave before i hit him, and its not getting any better each day. Im at the point to where i cant do anything outside of here fun or he will hold it aginst me and say i need to focus on work. And when i am at work he brings things my mom has done or my sister has done and uses them as a reason the give me hell. Any advice guys? maybe some of you have worked for family and have been here before.