coonsplatoon
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I'm fairly new to TRP and pick up. I'm 21 years old and throughout most of my life i've been a "beta" to say the least. She's one of the first girls I've been gaming since swallowing the pill.
This girl, lets call her Joy, came to my table at the club (didn't tell her to come, came with my roommates GF) We were dancing and making out and then she left to get a drink so when she was gone, I started chatting up another girl at the table who I've hooked up with in the past (Joy knows that i have hooked up with her before because her friend told her) Joy saw this and went completely cold on me. Joy claimed that I was making out with her, which i wasn't. I was probably being a bit too touchy in front of her but we haven't hooked up in a while and we're "friends" now. I didn't intentionally do this to start some BS drama.
I ignored it for a little bit and then I pulled Joy out of the club to talk to her and throw her some comfort to which she was receptive and warm towards, kissed, made up etc. She left after with her friends who were giving me dirty looks and shaking their heads at me in the club throughout the night.
In the month and a half that I've been gaming Joy, I’ve been pretty cold and non comforting towards her. Never giving her much validation, never texting her for anything other than logistics, and always trying to make our hangouts around sex (she's withheld it from me once before intentionally because she felt "used") She's a cool girl and this is our first bit of drama.
I got thrown off center that night and I feel like I maybe ****ed it up with this girl. I told her to hit me up the next day but she hasn't contacted me since then. Yes I know abundance, but is this plate salvageable? What do you guys take away from this/what would you do?
This girl, lets call her Joy, came to my table at the club (didn't tell her to come, came with my roommates GF) We were dancing and making out and then she left to get a drink so when she was gone, I started chatting up another girl at the table who I've hooked up with in the past (Joy knows that i have hooked up with her before because her friend told her) Joy saw this and went completely cold on me. Joy claimed that I was making out with her, which i wasn't. I was probably being a bit too touchy in front of her but we haven't hooked up in a while and we're "friends" now. I didn't intentionally do this to start some BS drama.
I ignored it for a little bit and then I pulled Joy out of the club to talk to her and throw her some comfort to which she was receptive and warm towards, kissed, made up etc. She left after with her friends who were giving me dirty looks and shaking their heads at me in the club throughout the night.
In the month and a half that I've been gaming Joy, I’ve been pretty cold and non comforting towards her. Never giving her much validation, never texting her for anything other than logistics, and always trying to make our hangouts around sex (she's withheld it from me once before intentionally because she felt "used") She's a cool girl and this is our first bit of drama.
I got thrown off center that night and I feel like I maybe ****ed it up with this girl. I told her to hit me up the next day but she hasn't contacted me since then. Yes I know abundance, but is this plate salvageable? What do you guys take away from this/what would you do?