"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need some advice on how to reply to this guys!.

demonic

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hey guys, so i got a txt off this girl i use to go with this morning.She knew that i went out last night and that me and her are over but were not.

It's a pretty weird situation, we broke up cause she thought i changed too much which to be fair i did.
Anyhow i told her to make her mind up about what she wants to do by the end of the weekend.

So i get a txt saying "did you pull?" that's it...this comes at like 5pm and that's all it say's.It's like she does'nt want to be with me but nobody else is allowed to either.

I just wanna get some advice on a reply, What would you guy's say to that?.

thanks

demonic
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CORVETTE06

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i would ignore it and leave her a part of my past. i wouldnt want her interfering with any new girls i may meet
 

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CORVETTE06 said:
i would ignore it and leave her a part of my past. i wouldnt want her interfering with any new girls i may meet
thanks for the quick reply, yeah see at the moment she is screwing my head up.I've not been happy for 3 months now, an the moment i let her loose i'm happy...yet i still miss her and can't stop thinking about her.

It's driving me insane!

She said yesterday she'd rather hang with her friends than me and that she does'nt want a relationship atm and thinks being my friend is a better idea.She said i had changed and that she's never known someone to have so many diffrent personalities.

I guess i should really next her,but it's soo hard when you like someone so much!.
guess i can get over her...just thinking of a way to reply so i gain alittle bit of self respect and power back for my ego if i'm being totally honest.
 

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I would just reply with "wouldn't you like to know?" That'll put her back in her place. If she's the controlling type that won't even make out with you, just f*** with her so she'll have karma bite her in the @$$.
 

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Was thinking of ignoring the question totally, was gonna say something along the lines of

"i really should'nt drink stella, stella bad...makes me funny"

i dunno, i just feel like i should'nt even reply to **** like this from girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Or simply reply back; "What do you mean?" If you don't know what she means by "Did you pull?" just ask. It's not rocket science. Or ignore it and never know what she ment by that text.
 

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Just think it's a **** test that i should'nt even bother replying to, i mean why does she even care?...she was'nt intrested in asking how my night went or anything.
 
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