Audiophile
Don Juan
Quick Story:
I live in a dorm, last week one of my buddies brought his girlfriend over for a few days. I would sometimes talk to her and act friendly (treat her as I would any other girl, no intention to do anything). One of my other buddies called me out and said everyone thought I was hitting on her. I was like "okay", so I just backed off and didn't really talk to her throughout the rest of her stay.
I thought that was the end of that. She added me on facebook today and sent me a "hello" message. I just continued creating some small talk, and the next thing I know her boyfriend tells me I better go talk to him or he's gonna kick my ass. So I go and talk to him to see what the problem is, and apparently HIS girlfriend told him that I was trying to get with her, etc... that I was touching her during her stay, giving her looks. I didn't do any of these things, but that's not what is really important, my buddy thinks she's telling the truth.
He told me that if I ever want to chill in his room again I better come back with a solution, he pretty much just wants to kick my ass.
I get the whole "Is this someone you really want to hang out with?", but his room is where we usually end up because his roomate is a pretty cool guy and that's where we've been hanging out the past few months.
Any advice on what I could do?
I live in a dorm, last week one of my buddies brought his girlfriend over for a few days. I would sometimes talk to her and act friendly (treat her as I would any other girl, no intention to do anything). One of my other buddies called me out and said everyone thought I was hitting on her. I was like "okay", so I just backed off and didn't really talk to her throughout the rest of her stay.
I thought that was the end of that. She added me on facebook today and sent me a "hello" message. I just continued creating some small talk, and the next thing I know her boyfriend tells me I better go talk to him or he's gonna kick my ass. So I go and talk to him to see what the problem is, and apparently HIS girlfriend told him that I was trying to get with her, etc... that I was touching her during her stay, giving her looks. I didn't do any of these things, but that's not what is really important, my buddy thinks she's telling the truth.
He told me that if I ever want to chill in his room again I better come back with a solution, he pretty much just wants to kick my ass.
I get the whole "Is this someone you really want to hang out with?", but his room is where we usually end up because his roomate is a pretty cool guy and that's where we've been hanging out the past few months.
Any advice on what I could do?