Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I think looking back you can see the major shift in your relationship occurred once you moved in with her. I made this mistake once in my early 20's thinking it would be the best idea ever; sex all the time, being around the person you really like etc; TOTALLY WRONG.
The reason things were so good in the beginning is because her IMAGINATION was working in your favor. When you two weren't together she had to wonder what you were doing, and girls have this great way of always imagining the worst (meaning you were likely with other girls in her mind) aka competition anxiety.
Once you moved in with her and became dependent on her for your happiness, the thrill, the chase, the challenge was gone. And that was likely the case for awhile, before all this blew up recently.
If you decide to meet up with her, I think your BEST move for now if you want her back is to AGREE with her on the break up. Don't get whiney, don't talk about feelings etc. Just be neutral, tell her you spent sometime thinking and you think its for the best that you guys do your own thing.
Then go No Contact on her, work on yourself, IMPROVE yourself and once you have your emotions in check, you might be able to re-kindle on your terms.
PIMP
The reason things were so good in the beginning is because her IMAGINATION was working in your favor. When you two weren't together she had to wonder what you were doing, and girls have this great way of always imagining the worst (meaning you were likely with other girls in her mind) aka competition anxiety.
Once you moved in with her and became dependent on her for your happiness, the thrill, the chase, the challenge was gone. And that was likely the case for awhile, before all this blew up recently.
If you decide to meet up with her, I think your BEST move for now if you want her back is to AGREE with her on the break up. Don't get whiney, don't talk about feelings etc. Just be neutral, tell her you spent sometime thinking and you think its for the best that you guys do your own thing.
Then go No Contact on her, work on yourself, IMPROVE yourself and once you have your emotions in check, you might be able to re-kindle on your terms.
PIMP