Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need some advice DJs (im new)

TheGambino

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Hey guys,

I spent today with a chick at school that i like. She has a boyfriend.. :/ I teased her a bit, and she had fun i saw that. I was tryin to seduce her and teased her a bit grabbing her telephone and went for the pics from her in bikini, she was amused all that. Her boyfriend called twice and she was acting annoyed when he called kinda showing me that he annoyed her with his boring stuff. So it was all good touched her sometimes and she touched me while doin the project, it was fun. She knows i dated a old friend of hers a little while ago and that i had a date settled with another girl for that evening coz i had a phonecall earlier, so she could thinks im a player or so. In the evening she texted me about school and i replied normally yet entertaining her. She texted me a couple of hours later again something like dont forget you have an exam friday again, prob tryin to figure if im goin to try to seduce her again, not sure? So i went for the bait and texted her something like: i have a new name for u she replied: tell me? texted cant tell you but its coz ur awake so late and stressed like this afternoon, she didnt replie anymore on my text and ignored. didnt replie on that text yet.. My question is DJs how can I get her interest level up in the future since she has a boyfriend and still shows interest in me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bluejay83

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-she has a boyfriend
-she's hitting on you, and you on her
-she's a cheating wh0re
-you're a phaggot



if you do become the ultimate phaggot & get her to leave her monkeybranch over to you & leave her boyfriend, what's going to stop her from cheating on you?
 

TheException

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I spent today with a chick at school that i like. She has a boyfriend

From the very first line^ I knew this was going to be a waste of time for you...

My question is DJs how can I get her interest level up in the future since she has a boyfriend and still shows interest in me.

Stop trying to get her interest level up...thats how. Counter intuitive right? Ya thats why it works. Shes got a bf dude, just put zero effort into her and maybe when she breaks up(sounds like a beta if shes annoyed) she ll hit you up. You ruin any shot in the future by even thinking about her....even for a second. Shes unavailable and you have better things to do and better women to pursue....period.
 

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bluejay83 said:
-she has a boyfriend
-she's hitting on you, and you on her
-she's a cheating wh0re
-you're a phaggot



if you do become the ultimate phaggot & get her to leave her monkeybranch over to you & leave her boyfriend, what's going to stop her from cheating on you?
your funny in your wordchoise 'monkeybranch' lmfao, its pretty logic tho, nothin gon stop her but idc tbh
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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