"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need serious help.

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I'm a 16 year old Junior. I'm in a super one sided relation ship with another female. Let me just give you some background information.
She's Mexican-White, big arse, decent chest and short. I've known here since the 7th grade. I've been to numerous events/parties with her. I know like I raised her. I can't shake her out of my head. She say's we are just friends but.... there's stuff we've done that warrants much more. Example the numerous times I've slapped her ass, whether she had a boyfriend or not, I did it out of hate towards her boyfriends(Like **** your relationship) Or the time I messed around and slipped my hands in her pants and she just blushed. It goes on and on.

Some days she treats me indifferent(especially around her friends) Other days she treats me like a boyfriend. She's made me insane some days, like I'm love shy or some gay **** like that. I can't seem to effectively express my feelings for her, I come off as a nice guy. Example, "Comes in and sits next to me before class" I mention how nice she looks and she'll just blush and thank me. She has this on and off relationship with this one guy who is a super douche. Me and that guy are like day and night. But one day in a drunken stupor she said she likes me more. I'm giving her a ride to this party, it's called recklezz, never sober ent. Should I tell her there?

She's super protective and stopped talking to me for like a month cause I received a lap dance(Best in my life btw) She doesn't like it when I try to mess with other females to get her off my mind, but "we're only friends"

Is there any hope for us? I'd only consider wifing her up as she's made every other female look ugly. Thank you in advance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To clarify, she is very prudent. I wouldn't love her if she wasn't, I've spent soo much money upgrading my look for her it's not even funny.
 

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She's a tease. Man up and take her (if she says no you need to accept it) or let her slip away.
 

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Just read the DJ bible, feel very slow now lol. I've tried being confident around her but I end up looking like a douche, how can I find the right balance? I have to man up, she makes me feel like listening to coldplay which is pretty feminine. Anyway thanks for the help, I'll keep you guys posted on what happens tonight(She's giving me a ride to a party)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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save yourself the wasted time thinking about her and find a girl that you can advance on in a straight line (highly interested and who doesnt make things hard)
 

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Even after you absorb and implement the DJB techniques, it is VERY UNLIKELY that women from your past will get attracted to you. Its because AFC once, is AFC forever for them. BUT there are exceptions.

You just cannot read what's going inside the mind of a chick. You'll just be running in circles, unless you make a move. If she rejects then WALK AWAY. A real man wouldn't do otherwise :)

I mean to say, if it doesn't work, then forget the chick, find more pvssy to kill the oneitis and get more confidence :D

And yes, keep reading the Bible, and understand that you must mainly improve for YOURSELF, not for the chick. Chicks come and go.

-AK
 

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dear jacob,
bella chooses edward.
but rest assured, there is a girl out there just for you.
it just isn't this chick.
 

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Thanks for the help

I do feel like she's playing with me. I've been giving the cold shoulder to every other female that is attracted to me, so she's killing me game too. She's really a sweet girl thoo and I feel like we do have a future. I've tried about forgetting her via dating other girls, she seems to always come back though.
 

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Trust us, everyone is saying the same thing... just let her go bro.
Your princess is in another castle
and at that she wont let any *****s in yours! what the hell man!

:D i like that quote
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Face it!

trojan17 said:
she seems to always come back though.
Ofcourse, when she can't find a jock to suck spooge from, what else can she do? Keep your EGO aside bro.

Just let go. Never look back. Not even if she is crying at your doorstep in pouring rain with a see-through white shirt on.

Hand that biatch a box of tissues, and shut the door behind your past. And remember, no such chick is worth your precious time :D

Go game!

-AK
 
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