"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sent a myspace girl a message the other day asking if we knew each other because she looked familiar (which she did, it wasnt a fake line and we had a lot of mutual friends)

she replies and says shes down in my area often so its possible. i reply with "i'm in a bit of a hurry, do you use AIM?"

she didn't respond so 3 days later (today) i sent a message "what are you playing hard to get already? nice. write back."
the same line i always use when i dont get a response and 90% of the time they reply back in a more friendly mood.

her response "I don't know you. You're being a bit of creep. later."

what should i respond with?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i was going to send this before opting to get opinions first

"oh how foolish of me, who am i to even message someone of your stature, i beg of you for forgiveness ms. high status here let me get this pedestal back under your feet ;)

loser :)"
 

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UMMMM DID U TRY IDENTIFYING YOURSELF.....................

chics hate it when they have an unknown caller or blocked #, same goes for texts, ims emails.

The problem: you are using NET DATING tactics (virtual negs) on SOCIAL NET WORKING SITES.

HUGE DIFFERENCE DUDE................everyone just assumes they can use the exact same lines on various sites............to do that is a crime and sorry to say it has a low success rate.

Social networking sites are different then dating sites and need slight enhancements to your time tested (taken from Insiders dating) "what are you playing hard to get"..........

theres a ton of possibilities, she could be in the presence of others reading your email out-loud, you may in fact have not ID yourself properly, she coulda been in a rush, no pictures, etc, etc...........who knows and who cares.

Adjust your "playing hard to get" cut n paste to something more GENUINE........

here we go.............

1) your subject line "do I know you",,,,,,,,,,,,,,,not clever enough

2) DID U PERSONALIZE EMAIL from stuff on her page

3) WAITED TOO LONG with the playing hard to get email

i could go on but u get the idea..........I hope. Cut n paste, tired old lines have different results on different sites
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i was going to send this before opting to get opinions first

"oh how foolish of me, who am i to even message someone of your stature, i beg of you for forgiveness ms. high status here let me get this pedestal back under your feet

loser "


THIS JUST SCREAMS CREEP, dude your making her assumption about you correct.

LOSE THE DATING SCRIPT and take a looksy at her profile...........theres an art to virual pickups.....and your screaming amateur antics.

see something on her page..............incorporate it into the headline using SLIGHT humor..............then mention it in your email.

stop with the OH I AM NOT WORTHY.........even though its a joke not all humor is translated that way when online.

best advice,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,2 emails...............no response.........send the hey have not heard from you email..........then thats it, move on.

forget the Im not worthy, your loss, etc BS and put a lil sincerity into your cut n paste.

IF YOU ARE SENDING THESE ONE LINERS...........START BEING ORIGINAL AND PUT YOUR OWN SPIN ON IT SO YOU ARE IN FACT NOT CREEPY LOSER GUY.

C & F..........takes years to master, NEGS---hard to do effectvely on line.

HERES THE CHECKLIST FOR SUCCESS............

1) SUBJECT LINE...........make it enticing, use the trick RE: OUR DATE THIS WEEKEND or something like that........remember the RE:

2) CUT N PASTE something from her profile, page, then use it in your email.............HEY I SEE YOU LIKE DRAGONS HUH..........

3) BE ORIGINAL AND GENUINE.............chics see right through short, GENERIC ONE LINERS...........they know U are trolling online with cut n pastes.........SO COUNTERACT THAT BY ALTERING YOUR CUT N PASTES

4) if no response...........tease ever so slightly.........very few men have turned a no response into dates..........it does happen from time to time.
Send out your hey do U have IM name, cats got your tongue, what no clever comebacks email........

5) wait a few days..........if still no response............move on.

6) best time to email is when she is online

7) try your stuff out on dating sites instead of social sites

8) RESEARCH EMAILS THAT REAP SUCCESS OR GOSH MY EARLIER POSTS.
 
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