Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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couple weeks ago, some hot chick in a junior english class that i t.a. in asked me to give her extra credit. i basically said "ill think about it" then i forgot. today, a another, hotter chick comes up to me(hot enough for me to post anyways), and something along these lines happens:

HB is w/ her friends and me and my bud stop to chat. then HB comes up real close to me (IOI?)

HB: hey, you enter grades and stuff into the computer, right?
Me: yeah, why do you ask?
HB: well, do you think you could add some points to my grade to like, get me up to an A?
Me: hmmm... i don't know...
-My bud who actually knows her says to me in front of her:"what confuses me is why shes asking you instead of me"-
HB continues: like, it doesn't have to be that many... just a few....
Me: well... whats in it for me?
HB pauses and says: well, i can give you a candy bar tommorow
Me (in shock): hmm, i dont know
i start to walk away, then put my hand on her shoulder and say with a smile: well, tell you what, ill think about it and let you know tommorrow, ok?
HB: yeah, sounds good

Anyways, i know if i just gave her the points she would be using me (which my friend would of done if she asked him!) and since i am not letting people walk on me anymore i wouldnt give in to some chick who might not even be interested. Plus that is a dumb whorie thing to do on her part.

So my idea is to either tell her, "i thought about it, and i wouldnt do that behind mrs. teacher's back, especially to someone i dont know, even if she is cute." or "im not going to do that, but i could help you with hw."
I think its an alright response but im asking you guys to come up with a better one.

Basically, how can i turn this into a way for her to find out what a fvcking awesome dude i am?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Say that you are still contemplating the issue, and you are yet to find a good enough reason for you to give her the credits... (Or whatever she wants you to do)
A playful neg might do wonders...
 

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"i thought about it, and i wouldnt do that behind mrs. teacher's back, especially to someone i dont know, even if she is cute." or "im not going to do that, but i could help you with hw."


No, just say that you wanted something a little better than a candy bar, and see what she ends up with.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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