"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zubs

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couple weeks ago, some hot chick in a junior english class that i t.a. in asked me to give her extra credit. i basically said "ill think about it" then i forgot. today, a another, hotter chick comes up to me(hot enough for me to post anyways), and something along these lines happens:

HB is w/ her friends and me and my bud stop to chat. then HB comes up real close to me (IOI?)

HB: hey, you enter grades and stuff into the computer, right?
Me: yeah, why do you ask?
HB: well, do you think you could add some points to my grade to like, get me up to an A?
Me: hmmm... i don't know...
-My bud who actually knows her says to me in front of her:"what confuses me is why shes asking you instead of me"-
HB continues: like, it doesn't have to be that many... just a few....
Me: well... whats in it for me?
HB pauses and says: well, i can give you a candy bar tommorow
Me (in shock): hmm, i dont know
i start to walk away, then put my hand on her shoulder and say with a smile: well, tell you what, ill think about it and let you know tommorrow, ok?
HB: yeah, sounds good

Anyways, i know if i just gave her the points she would be using me (which my friend would of done if she asked him!) and since i am not letting people walk on me anymore i wouldnt give in to some chick who might not even be interested. Plus that is a dumb whorie thing to do on her part.

So my idea is to either tell her, "i thought about it, and i wouldnt do that behind mrs. teacher's back, especially to someone i dont know, even if she is cute." or "im not going to do that, but i could help you with hw."
I think its an alright response but im asking you guys to come up with a better one.

Basically, how can i turn this into a way for her to find out what a fvcking awesome dude i am?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Say that you are still contemplating the issue, and you are yet to find a good enough reason for you to give her the credits... (Or whatever she wants you to do)
A playful neg might do wonders...
 

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"i thought about it, and i wouldnt do that behind mrs. teacher's back, especially to someone i dont know, even if she is cute." or "im not going to do that, but i could help you with hw."


No, just say that you wanted something a little better than a candy bar, and see what she ends up with.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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