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Master Don Juan
Hey guys, just looking for some opinions on this text game.
I met this chick at a training for my profession (she doesn't work with me), and she seemed cool, pretty in the face, a bit thicker than I usually like but huge cantaloupe tits, and she seemed to be laughing at my jokes and giving me the eyes so I thought she was diggin' me.
I knew I had to get her number. I meant to use a line like "I just had to tell you that I think you're cute and I wanted to take you out and show you around town" (yeah, that's the best I got for direct game) but I never had a chance to get alone and I didn't want to just ask her out in front of a bunch of people that I might be working around.
So, when we were walking out to the parking lot, I fluffed her about what she was going to do before her job started and I told her that we should "hang out sometime" and got her number and set up loose plans for this weekend. Now, I have gotten in trouble about not making my intentions clear from the start so I'm really trying to avoid being put into the friend category. "Hanging out" might work with college girls but I doubt it works terribly well with professional women. Although I think she is like 22 or 23 so she's still young.
Last night I got back from a trip and I decided to text her and see if she was free. She seemed pretty enthusiastic and seemed to be playing little text games but whatever, I invited her to watch the Olympic basketball game with me tomorrow night at this really cool sports bar I just discovered. She agreed and just sent me that text about bringing her roommate.
She's new to the area (I think she's some small-town Midwesterner) and so maybe this could be a comfort/security thing on her part. I also am somewhat more attractive than her so maybe that could be affecting it. Or it could be a shit test. Hard to say.
I'm leaning towards saying "yeah sure" to her bringing the roommate, as I think it would be more awkward to say "no" or to try to clarify that I wanted to date her not just be her bro and hang out. I figure that I can just charm her roommate a little, build up some rapport with both, and then try to isolate and mate with the girl I like the next time we go out.
Does anyone have a way I could gracefully say "no" or let her know that I am not trying to just "hang out"
It's about 2:30 mountain time, I feel like I should text this chick back within the hour or so (she texted me about 1:00), so any quick advice would be appreciated.
I met this chick at a training for my profession (she doesn't work with me), and she seemed cool, pretty in the face, a bit thicker than I usually like but huge cantaloupe tits, and she seemed to be laughing at my jokes and giving me the eyes so I thought she was diggin' me.
I knew I had to get her number. I meant to use a line like "I just had to tell you that I think you're cute and I wanted to take you out and show you around town" (yeah, that's the best I got for direct game) but I never had a chance to get alone and I didn't want to just ask her out in front of a bunch of people that I might be working around.
So, when we were walking out to the parking lot, I fluffed her about what she was going to do before her job started and I told her that we should "hang out sometime" and got her number and set up loose plans for this weekend. Now, I have gotten in trouble about not making my intentions clear from the start so I'm really trying to avoid being put into the friend category. "Hanging out" might work with college girls but I doubt it works terribly well with professional women. Although I think she is like 22 or 23 so she's still young.
Last night I got back from a trip and I decided to text her and see if she was free. She seemed pretty enthusiastic and seemed to be playing little text games but whatever, I invited her to watch the Olympic basketball game with me tomorrow night at this really cool sports bar I just discovered. She agreed and just sent me that text about bringing her roommate.
She's new to the area (I think she's some small-town Midwesterner) and so maybe this could be a comfort/security thing on her part. I also am somewhat more attractive than her so maybe that could be affecting it. Or it could be a shit test. Hard to say.
I'm leaning towards saying "yeah sure" to her bringing the roommate, as I think it would be more awkward to say "no" or to try to clarify that I wanted to date her not just be her bro and hang out. I figure that I can just charm her roommate a little, build up some rapport with both, and then try to isolate and mate with the girl I like the next time we go out.
Does anyone have a way I could gracefully say "no" or let her know that I am not trying to just "hang out"
It's about 2:30 mountain time, I feel like I should text this chick back within the hour or so (she texted me about 1:00), so any quick advice would be appreciated.
