"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need protein (also, how to season tuna?)

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Anyway, here's my problem. I'm kinda low on financer right now, so buying whey powder is out of the question at the moment. But I still need like 350 g of protein a day. Even with protein shakes added into the diet, I end up eating like 4-5 cans of tuna and 2 cups of cottage cheese. Without the shakes, I have no idea what I'll do. Do you have suggestions for cheap alternative sources of protein?

Also, I hate tuna. What's your way of seasoning it so it doesn't taste like tuna but an actual meal?

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my opinion, you do not need 350g of protein a day. 1.0-1.5g of protein/lbs of body weight would probably be just fine.

I get my whey protein for like 20 bucks. Lasts a month. tastes good. about 24g/serving.
 

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Nice. I go to gnc and get the 10 lbs for $90.

How much protein should one have in shake form per day? Is there too much? I try to get at least 200g from clean food. Rest comes from shakes.

Diesel's cutting guide says 2g of protein/#, so it's 350g for me. Or is there some lenience in that rule?
 

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Whey is the cheapest source of protein available (cost/servings ratio). Buy in bulk over the net instead of going to supplements stores. Eggs and skim milk powder are also some good choices if you have a tight budget.
 

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Thanks. Any sites to recommend?

Eggs are a little impractical in terms of protein to fat ration while on a cutting diet, though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks. Any sites to recommend?

Eggs are a little impractical in terms of protein to fat ration while on a cutting diet, though.
http://www.bodybuilding.com/store - overall has the cheapest prices for all supplements I've seen on the net.

Don't be afraid of taking in good fats (i.e. egg yolks, nuts, olive oil, avacados...). It's very important you have 20-35% of your calories coming from good fat sources for your overall health. The fats you need to avoid are the bad fats (i.e. saturated fats and trans fats).
 

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the mercury from 4-5 cans of tuna per day will **** up your brain/ nervous system after a while..
 

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If you are still wanting to spice up your tuna, I drain it very dry and sprinkle it with dill weed and then sqeeze the juice of a lemon on it to remoisten. You can find dill weed in the spice area of the supermarket. Warning: A little goes a long way!

I buy the gold and black BumbleBee can of solid white tuna in water, it may be a little more expensive BUT it not mushy and yeilds a larger serving after being drained.
 

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350 grams aged 18.

You must be one big cat?
 

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I do this. I add some relish, some finely chopped celery, some parsley, some chives, 1 tbsp mayonnaise (miracle whip/low fat), and a few dabs of tabasco sauce.

Then I mix and if it's too wet, I will add some crumbs. Of course, I drain it well before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Go to the store and get yourself a big tub of Whey for $20, and it lasts a while. You'll get more protein out of that than 20 cans of tuna. Don't buy it from known expensive stores like drug stores, because they'll rip you off. Go to well known grocery stores that are known for low prices, and you should be able to find a nice big tub of it

However, tuna is fantastic for when you're cutting.
 

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I don't bother seasoning tuna (though it might not be a bad idea). I just drain the water and add a tbsp of mayo, then stick it between some whole grain bread. Tastes great IMO.

I also don't recommend eating more than a few large cans a week.
 

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****, I didn't know the mercury was bad. Today I ate .8 kg in tuna. Am I gonna die?

Thanks for the seasoning tips, guys!

@Desdinova: what stores sell whey in bulk? I went to GNC and got 10 lbs for $90. That either lasts a month, or in comes the tuna.

BTW I'm not big - 170 lbs at 14.5 % bf. That was 16 a while ago, so Diesel's diet works. It says eat weight * 2 grams of protein, hence the large amount of protein.

On that note, is this amount really necessary? Or can I do just as well on less protein?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Canned tuna is a little better in regard to mercury levels, but it still has some mercury. Pregnant women and young kids are supposed to avoid it altogether. You'd probably be fine eating all the tuna you want for the rest of your life. But the problem with heavy metals like lead and mercury is that they tend to accumulate in the body over years. The phrase 'mad as a hatter' from Alice in Wonderland comes from the practice of Victorian dry cleaners who would rub mercury into stains to remove them, usually handling the mercury with bare hands. It took society a long time to figure out why every dry cleaner seemed so nutty.
 
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I like to get Optimum Nutrition's 100% Whey from http://www.vitaglo.com/100whey10lb.html. That's the best price I've found on the stuff as of now (if anybody else knows a better deal, please post!). I'm taking in about the same amount of protein every day, and while I get a majority of it from food, the whey really helps to supplement your protein intake to where you want it to be. As others have said, whey will also be the most cost efficient way.
 

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If you're worried about mercury you could always look into supplementing with chlorella or spirulina which are both said to help with getting rid of heavy metals. Not sure how true that is, though.
 
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