Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I recently have been trying out the online dating thing, kinda checking it out. I'm getting some great views with my current profile that's up now and some responses. I have noticed I have cut down the infamous read and deleted. Conversations seem to saprk up a little more, however I don't want to keep missing these 8-10's htat are hitting it up.SOoooo take a view hit me up with some feed back I can't quite get the bad boy attitude into the file,I have also however started to rethink when they blow it off (as if i dont care)
My htoughts behind it were to apply a few jokes through out it to keep them laughing as they read....Hmmmm feel free to hit me honestly I can take it.

REALY NEED A HAND HERE BOYS BELOW IS WHATS POSTED

!! Misconceptions when a women states she wants a strong guy…C’mon boys she’s not talking about your biceps…she wants you to take control of a situation and lead the way…duhh...yes I just cracked a joke on my own gender !!

I would describe myself as a soulful, confident and unique individual, with a great sense of humor, who loves to be active, open minded and spontaneous. I am a lot of fun to be around and have a variety of interests.I think that anything is possible don’t you? Potential for anything is always unlimited. I’m not afraid of anything and will remove road blocks as they arise through out life.

!!If you want to know how to tick off a telemarketer, Knock on your door and ask them to hold on a second while you get the door and lay the phone down. !! (Screaming is optional)

I am originally from Kentucky and love it here the weather is great even during its hottest. I’m a thick skinned country boy so if your clingy and needy every 15 minutes or superficial, chances are you can't keep my attention. I love animals and the outdoors, there’s nothing like being outside having fun, and connecting with Mother Nature. I think it’s a great way to clear your mind. I really enjoy hiking, camping and other outdoor activities if you’re someone that’s into those sorts of activities that’s a big plus ;)

!! If you realy want the secret to a perfect tan, just put on some of that accelerant stuff and go out in the yard when it's a 115 degrees. !!
(Swim wears optional there too)

I’m currently studying to become a Nationally Certified EMT and look forward to accomplishing that goal. I have various goals for which I look to accomplish in my life. I think that it’s important to stay focused on the things you want to achieve, and I find focused, ambitious women sexy =) are you a fun adventurous girl with ambition? I’m pretty relaxed and enjoy hanging out with my friends and family and having a good laugh, I’m highly passionate about those relationships(Particularly between my mother and I). I’m looking for a girl that can hold her own in a conversation, and has something going for her other than great looks.

!!One of my life long dreams has always been to scream so loud it actually breaks the sound barrier!! ....Side effcts could inlude, a collapsed lung and a cyonotic facial expression ....I'm just saying.

I enjoy exercising, weekly hikes and doing what I can to stay healthy. Jogging is another great way to focus my attention and clear my head; it’s also a great way to relieve stress. A secret side of mine is that I actually enjoy cooking, and gardening ;) I may just cook you up a special mouthwatering entre' of mine. My musical taste varies from a little jazz all the way to a little country just depends on my mood.

!! I've always believed Ike and Tina could get back together....Not in this life time...I'm just saying !!

I enjoy going out to a local sports bar and having a drink and maybe watching a game. I also enjoy fun and stimulating conversations accompanied by drinks and an appetizer with good company. I’m pretty straight forward and am not interested in head games as they are not appealing to me. I made the decision to increase my health awareness and put forth effort to quit smoking .
(As nerve racking as it may be)
That being said thanks for looking have a great day and good luck ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would like to implement a little bad boy in there and can't figure the wording to set off that trigger women have.
 

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Have a higher value mindset and you'll write like a higher value man. Give the impression you're in demand and you've plenty of options. Say something like "I can be a little fussy when dealing with women but I have enjoyed all my previous encounters". That sentence gives the impression you're being modest (by naming a fault of yours), you have turned down lots of women and you must be a fun guy because all the dates went well.


If you want to sound like more of a badboy then you need to rewrite your original profile. In fact badboys write very little. Badboys would say what they want and say what they don't want. They wouldn't be too concerned about offending people either. So it'd be very different then your original profile.


You want to seem a bit mysterious too. Thats another advantage of cutting down the profile.
 

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MMMkkk

I think I wee where your going, I suppose maybe leaving in the first pararaph or two and including that phrase you suggested.I realy need some more writting skills tha will realy set that trigger off I have had a few contact me already but, I certainly don't want to limit my options and eventualy get them emailing me more. Watching some of these 8's and 10's are killing me, and I'm an average type of guy, I have had sever photo compliments and such. I realy wan tto elevate the game some and see where it goes.

Since i cant realy think like a "bad boy" I cerainly can't write that way. So much different in person and online I can project the hard to get more so in person than I can online...right now any way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mlw1708 said:
I would like to implement a little bad boy in there and can't figure the wording to set off that trigger women have.
I don't think online profiles and "bad boy" mix. A bad boy isn't spending paragraphs writing about himself in hopes that someone likes him.

If you want to appear more "bad boy", I'd say cut down on all that stuff, and stick with the bare minimum. "Here's my likes, here's my dislikes. Take it or leave it."

But what do I know, I don't do the online thing.
 

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heres mine.........I get about 85-90% read, 5-7% read and deleted and about 70-80% responded. (thats about 200% above the average guy). Please note that read & deleted does not always mean she did not respond.

About Me: First things first.......I HAVE NOT SLEPT WITH TIGER WOODS.......yet, I DO NOT own a Toyota......the bank does.

HERES WHAT U MISSED OUT ON ........SO FAR:

-a great first date with ME and my rock star kisses, U COULDA went with me to the Kid Rock concert. You missed out on all the haunted houses..... and IF you woulda met me like a month a go, we coulda been having amazing sex by now.

ST.PADDYS PUB CRAWL...........heck spring break and soon the summer.

A little about me:
FITNESS/WOKING OUT: 4 or 5 times a week I drive by several gyms. I am on some other dating sites (E-FARMONY-a site for animal lovers, MISMATCH-cause I a a magnet for psychos, Wahoo personals-like ya hoo but for people that whine and complain). I get plenty of emails....... from several sites: theres this one from Africa asking for some money, tons from POF letting me know all the people who did not read, deleted or accidently viewed ME. 12000 people read my profile........I assume while bored at work. I been on tv shows (cops, Americas most wanted, cheaters,Americas next top model) Lottery Winner (10 bucks but still a winner).

I love all sorts of ANIMALS....like umm chicken, ham, beef, turkey mmmmmmmmmmm delicious!!!!

I thought the question said "DO U OWN A CAT"............not a car........OOPS! Sorry POF question asker guy. I n that case I change my answer from several to one......but it purs like a kitten.


Take a break from your fan mail and meet me for a drink already!!!!!!!!
 

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Hmm

So I'm working on it hope i'm getting the right idea,I cut a ton of stuff out now it reads like 2 paragraphs and conludes wiht a joke.....More pointers welcome for sure....

I would describe myself as a soulful, confident and unique individual, with a great sense of humor, who loves to be active, open minded and spontaneous. I am a lot of fun to be around and have a variety of interests. I think that anything is possible don’t you? Potential for anything is always unlimited. I’m not afraid of anything and will remove road blocks as they arise throughout life.

I have lived in AZ about two years now and love it here the weather is great even during its hottest. I’m a thick skinned country boy so if your clingy and needy every 15 minutes or superficial, chances are you can't keep my attention. I love animals and the outdoors, there’s nothing like being outside having fun, and connecting with Mother Nature. I think it’s a great way to clear your mind. I really enjoy weekly hikes, jogging, camping and other outdoor activities if you’re someone that’s into those sorts of activities that’s a big plus ;) I can be a little fussy when dealing with women but I have enjoyed all my previous encounters.

!! If you really want the secret to a perfect tan, just put on some of that accelerant stuff and go out in the yard when it's a 115 degrees. !!
(Swim wears optional there too)
 
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