"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hendrix

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Well I've chatted with this chick for 2 weeks or so and she comments on my pics on myspace and sais i have hot abs- so i get her number-call her- attempt to schedule fun like ice skating and concert going- but she acts really timid and seems interested- but to a degree. Last weekend she said she had babysitting- which might not have happened- she doesnt answer her phone all the time if i call it sometimes- but she still acts interested like when we do chat/talk on the phone. Problem is I'm sick of this and need some meat and potatoes (her presence over absence). How do I coax her into letting me pick her up or meeting somewhere? I don't want to sound desperate but she just isn't biting on my offers. I don't leave messages on her phone because i doubt she will call me back. LOL She's smoking hot too. I don't want to convey desperation but at the same time CHATTING IS FOR LOSERS!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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musclyjerk

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My bet is she's fat or hideously ugly and is using fake pictures for the attention, comments and communication from guys she would never be able to pull in her life - she may be indulging in utter fantasy.

Plenty of chicks pull this sort of crap on Myspace etc.

Tell her to send you a photo of herself with a card saying "I'm too chicken to meet up with Hendrix"............... I bet you don't get it!

The Muscly Jerk
 

Hendrix

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so don't give her anymore attention? she sais she wants to hang out and party and to call her back today? Is she just flaky?
 
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