"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alright so this is how it goes... a friend of mine which happens to also be a close friend of this girl recently accused me of doing sum desperate stuff that i didnt do.

so i got irritated and got into an argument with him. this girl tried to become the mediator and i kinda handled things badly there and lambasted her as well. So...i wouldnt have given an f if this girl was just annybody but it so happened to be a girl which i'm quite interested in. Now she's like giving me the cold shoulder.

So what do u guys think i should do? Should i apologise to her or something? If yes, how should i do it so as not to sound desperate/ DJ style?? hehe.. thx in advance :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You cursed out friend A and female B. Now you want to appologize to female? Your priorities are wrong. Your friend is insecure. You ****ed up your chances with the chick.

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Chances are, you've ****ed it.

Learn from your mistakes and in future dont fight with people, be a man, not a teenage girl with PMS.
 
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In the future, remember to be calm, cool, and collected. This will help in a lot of things. Furthermore, if you feel really angry about something, hold it in for a little while; that extra time may make you think twice about doing something stupid.

As for apologizing, I wouldn't do it. Doc Love said something to the effect that you should only apologize immediately after it happens. Anything else is too late.
 
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