need opinions

[MrOctober]

check it out. dated / fwb her for like 3-4 months. it was like an official but still unofficial vibe dynamic. she always initiated contact. im talkin 400-12 on initiated texts. sweated me.
caught some oneitis and had a needy moment with her and dropped her attraction a few ticks no doubt. pulled back HARD for a month and smashed it once more.

so shes in LC still hitting me up. i drunk texted her one night and dropped her below a 5 no doubt.
wouldn't chill for a month or so.. i pull back to the moon thru text and we started chilling again only she was rejecting me when i escalated. this went on like 5 times until she flaked one night and i started a fight like a ***** over text, got impatient, over texted, acted like a ***** some more, went on for a month until she gave me all the classic lines.. "friends".. i was like nah i have enough friends.. acted like a ***** some more and we both said peace. i knew what i did...

recent:
*went NC for like 38 days.. hits me a couple weeks later and i ignored a text or two..
*finally hit her back one day out of boredom day 38. light convo thru the day.
*she hits me to chill for drinks the next night i was already out.... (think i woulda had her here)
hit her back the next day and i offer plans, now shes back in hard to get mode and i agree to a maybe date thinkin shes testing me. she flakes and leaves me hanging. i play it cool.
*hits me up two days later and im in one-two word mode now and iced the convo.
*hits me up again few days later asking to chill on a whim and im not beat for it after the flake.. but didn't mention that of course.. and i tell her im busy.

*now i figure shes ripe... so i hit her up two days later like a dummy looking to make plans... keeps me hangin with it all.. what do you think fellas. can this be salvaged back to smash mode?

 

[cola]

Delete & block number, move on with life. Waste of brainpower thinking about her any further.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Nope... She flaked, more than once, and is suckering you into her frame.
Ignore her. Like Cola says she is a waste of your time.
For amusement try the most balls to the wall thing you could say and push your luck..
Her, "do you want to hang out sometime?"
You, "no, I want you to come here so I can fvck the shyt out of you."

No lose situation. If she says ok.. Sweet. If she gets all upset then who cares. You werent that into her anyway and it clarifies your position. It also means she actually has to make a decision.

 

[Poon King]

This is a retarded relationship to have with a woman. Its toxic and just plain stupid.

Stop working so hard. Spin plates and make the women in your life work for your attention. Your energy needs to be spent on your life goals and moving forward in life.. not on playing stupid head games with some dumb chicken-head twaat (that can be easily replaced btw).

Don't chase, replace. Spin plates. Head games are for beta men with no options and women know it.

 

[MrOctober]

This is a retarded relationship to have with a woman. Its toxic and just plain stupid.

Stop working so hard. Spin plates and make the women in your life work for your attention. Your energy needs to be spent on your life goals and moving forward in life.. not on playing stupid head games with some dumb chicken-head twaat (that can be easily replaced btw).

Don't chase, replace. Spin plates. Head games are for beta men with no options and women know it.

it wasn't always like this. it used to be really easy. now its just beyond repair.
but ive been spinning plates the whole time with success.
chick still hits me up but plays the game like you said and im not beat. its exactly what you said it feels like im the one working and shes contacting me you know.

but I agree with everything from you and the fellas up there and I appreciate it.

 

[Julian]

man you sound pathetic "i went no contact for like 38 days" ... but who's counting, right?


come on bro...you are investing way too much time effort energy with this trick.

like bro, get out of your head. You have every literal back an forth action between you and her, every detailed interaction analyzed..its not healthy.

she playing you for a fool big time...you said yourself she texted you 400 x, and you think its because she was so into you and blablabla......this is called idealizing. she builds you up, makes things easy, gives up all the sex to you, is super nice and blabla then she flips the switch and starts playing games and is currently mind fukking you hard.

just another classic cut an dry case here

 

[MrOctober]

man you sound pathetic "i went no contact for like 38 days" ... but who's counting, right?


come on bro...you are investing way too much time effort energy with this trick.

like bro, get out of your head. You have every literal back an forth action between you and her, every detailed interaction analyzed..its not healthy.

she playing you for a fool big time...you said yourself she texted you 400 x, and you think its because she was so into you and blablabla......this is called idealizing. she builds you up, makes things easy, gives up all the sex to you, is super nice and blabla then she flips the switch and starts playing games and is currently mind fukking you hard.

just another classic cut an dry case here

Lol when you put it like that damn. yea your right bro.

 

[dude99]

check it out. dated / fwb her for like 3-4 months. it was like an official but still unofficial vibe dynamic. she always initiated contact. im talkin 400-12 on initiated texts. sweated me.
caught some oneitis and had a needy moment with her and dropped her attraction a few ticks no doubt. pulled back HARD for a month and smashed it once more.

so shes in LC still hitting me up. i drunk texted her one night and dropped her below a 5 no doubt.
wouldn't chill for a month or so.. i pull back to the moon thru text and we started chilling again only she was rejecting me when i escalated. this went on like 5 times until she flaked one night and i started a fight like a ***** over text, got impatient, over texted, acted like a ***** some more, went on for a month until she gave me all the classic lines.. "friends".. i was like nah i have enough friends.. acted like a ***** some more and we both said peace. i knew what i did...

recent:
*went NC for like 38 days.. hits me a couple weeks later and i ignored a text or two..
*finally hit her back one day out of boredom day 38. light convo thru the day.
*she hits me to chill for drinks the next night i was already out.... (think i woulda had her here)
hit her back the next day and i offer plans, now shes back in hard to get mode and i agree to a maybe date thinkin shes testing me. she flakes and leaves me hanging. i play it cool.
*hits me up two days later and im in one-two word mode now and iced the convo.
*hits me up again few days later asking to chill on a whim and im not beat for it after the flake.. but didn't mention that of course.. and i tell her im busy.

*now i figure shes ripe... so i hit her up two days later like a dummy looking to make plans... keeps me hangin with it all.. what do you think fellas. can this be salvaged back to smash mode?

Next. Too many games being played. I'm surprised you still want too.

 

[MrOctober]

Next. Too many games being played. I'm surprised you still want too.

Yea it's dumb bro. It really is. and I mean it's not like I'm not spinning plates I've got a rotation. Got something brewing for tonight even.

I come here a lot and never post but I knew what everyone would tell me and that's perfect it's what i wanted to hear.

Chicks hot and she still hits me up so.. It was like a mini science project for a revenge smash and dash. Girls twisted bro.. Twisted.