"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need of help! Girl rejected me...

BluThunda

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Heloooo.... well heres the story I met this girl clled leanne in april we jst started 2 b m8s n we went bowlin n stuff chilled out. I asked her out and she said yeah! One week later she dumped me :confused: it wernt workin out!? was to me... that was in april! Now shes bak onto me and weve built a great relationship! I went to hers today and we always flirt etc big time flirting....... and she inivited me ice skating... the signals are clear but thing is I asked her out this evening and she said no:confused: she isnt ready to check me yet? she doesnt wnt a boyfriend right nw. Im way out of my head I need a quick reply on what to do and how to act tomorrow at ice skating!

Thanks, all
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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ah first post.

welcome to the family *dramatic sopranos music*

haha well obviously this is a chick very receptive to dj principles...ur with her (probably being overbearing and afc) and then u break up, she doesnt see u much or whatever, and she wants u.

just read up buddy. short notice but read the dj bible, top right corner. or read my super duper uper luper thread that everyone made fun of me for.

i still think its pretty good :) lol
 
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