"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need new hobbies

BlackDragon

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I kind of have a boring life. I'll be 20 soon and I really need to make a change. Right now Im waiting for a job and a shipping date for the Air Force, but I been waiting since last summer and Im growning impaitent with the Air Force. I days are usually like this. Wake up at 4:30 am, go to my first job. About 1:30 I go to my second job. At 5:30 I'll go to the libary, gym, or pick up my little brother. After that I just watch tv, study, or whatever at home till about 9 when I go to sleep. Two days out of the week I get out of work to go to an college class.

Recently, I go my hours reduce at my first job so it wouldn't be too stressful for me. With more times to do things, I'll thinking about joining a boxing gym or a Tae Kwon Do gym. Dont know which one I should join.

I also dont know what to do on weekends. I have some friends that I go out with on the weekends, but since my best friend got a girl friend we hardly hang out. I need to make some new friends or somthing. I like to go bowling, but would it look stupid to go bowling by myself on the weekend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lYlasTer

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My hobbies are bodybuilding and street magic. I'm about to start martial arts soon, either Muay Thai or Brazilian Jujitsu. Find something you'll enjoy and will make you a more well rounded person. I'm also spending more time reading books instead of surfing online. Learning an instrument can also help you in your DJ ways.
 

TheCalmGuy

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Get a guitar, its good company when you're alone and chicks love guitar players.. although it might take you 4-5 months to start playing songs...
 
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