"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need Motivation/Pep Talk

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Guys I barely ever post on here, but I have a big day tomorrow, i'm going to attempt to get a number/date close with my dream girl. I only saw here three works ago, and I have a bad case of one-itus and I haven't even talked to her yet.
So anyway, all I want is some motivational words/links or some sort of pep talk. Sounds retarded, but when I go in there tomorrow I need to be pumped and ready to win, and I some times don't have that, some times I do.

Maybe this is retarded, but we all need help in our own areas, this is mine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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handle your ****, g. picture yourself about to throw the winning TD pass in the Superbowl.

oh and look around and get after some other women as well.
 
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Calm down. She's just a girl.

Seriously. You need to relax. You don't need a pep talk, you need a chill pill. The worst thing you could do is get all amped up and then come off as over-eager or like "a man on a mission". Girls react to that type of energy, and its not good.

You just need to go in and treat her like a guy. Do you get all stressed out when you talk to a guy? I didn't think so.

Do you have something planned to say? Are you gonna wait until she's standing in the perfect spot in the shade under that one tree? Drop all of this. It comes off rehearsed, like a bad grade school play.

Don't mention that you've seen her there before. That's just stalker behavior. You've never spoken to her, right? Does she even know you exist? No? Good. You have a clean slate.

Look, you want motivation? There's no reason to be nervous. What's she gonna do, really? The worst she can say is no, and so what if she does? Are you gonna go home and cry into your pillow? She might be your dream girl, but hey, you have new dreams most every night, yeah? There will be more, and they will be better. This poor girl is just another person on this earth, like you or me. Don't build her up to be something that no one can be. Its not fair to her, and its not fair to you.

I've probably said too much, but I'll give you an opener that should help you get started.

"Hi. What's your name?"
 
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