"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Le killeur

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Hey guys, my exam's are fast approaching and they will essentially make or break me and decide whether or not i get into university.

I am just wondering if you would advise putting my social life on hold to revise my subjects and do well in my exams? Or do you think its possible to maintain a social life whilst revising?

My first exam is exactly one month today and i am just wondering to you guys have an advice / tips for the situation i am in?

Cheers!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr Wright

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Just do your work, girls arent going anywhere fast
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Only you know what you can do. Some people can party all night and do well on exams. Some people can't. It depends on what you can do!
 

SoSuave666

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Le killeur said:
Hey guys, my exam's are fast approaching and they will essentially make or break me and decide whether or not i get into university.

I don't see you saying anything about women making or breaking you. Keep up with your studies. Intelligence is far more important in the long run.
 

TwistedFireStarter

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SoSuave666 said:
I don't see you saying anything about women making or breaking you. Keep up with your studies. Intelligence is far more important in the long run.
+1 This. A degree is not the end all, but how many women do you see chasing after guys with money (a university education makes this easier) than the guy without a university degree collecting your garbage. Life is more interesting the more you know anyway. Just saying.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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