Hi all,
So this is about a girl I went into NC for a little over 3 months after telling her whats on my mind.
What I observed in these 3 months was she was mirroring my whatsapp profile picture.We never blocked each other.She was mirroring me even when I met her for the first time like sipping water at the same time.I always knew she liked me.So she is doing stuff like, if I was sitting down on the floor in my profile snap, she would post a similar snap of hers and if I was holding a glass in my snap she would have something similar in her hands.
I realised she was getting deperate. A friend of mine suggested... ping her, she is a girl, she will never take the initiative and it will be your loss at the end of the day and so I did ping her finally even though I had doubts in my mind as I have read a lot of stuff on this forum.
She did reply me back and we had a small conversation and she was very interested in knowing what I was doing and whether I was still pursuing my dreams or not.I said I was doing all that.I wanted to keep the conversation short, so I finally said,"Ping you back. I am shopping."
She didn't reply to that.-->Strike one
So pinged her back in the night,"U there".no response.-->Strike 2
After half an hour or so knowing that she had checked her whatsapp message, I pinged her again and she didn't respond.-->Strike 3
I stopped completely and haven't pinged her again and don't intend to as I realise this is major disrespect.
I realised couple of things.....
1. This is power game.
2. She thinks she got me back and has the upper hand.
3. This is a **** test. wants to see if I will lose my sanity.
My first reaction was, this girl is being silly.
I realise respect is a two way street.
I have no problem going completely ghost.Thanks to this forum I have my balls in my hands.I was an AFC and I am just learning the ropes.
Some pointers as to what's going on here would be helpful.
I know I am not going to initiate anything again. She lost her chance.
The way I see it, unless this girl learns to respect me this isn't going anywhere.
So this is about a girl I went into NC for a little over 3 months after telling her whats on my mind.
What I observed in these 3 months was she was mirroring my whatsapp profile picture.We never blocked each other.She was mirroring me even when I met her for the first time like sipping water at the same time.I always knew she liked me.So she is doing stuff like, if I was sitting down on the floor in my profile snap, she would post a similar snap of hers and if I was holding a glass in my snap she would have something similar in her hands.
I realised she was getting deperate. A friend of mine suggested... ping her, she is a girl, she will never take the initiative and it will be your loss at the end of the day and so I did ping her finally even though I had doubts in my mind as I have read a lot of stuff on this forum.
She did reply me back and we had a small conversation and she was very interested in knowing what I was doing and whether I was still pursuing my dreams or not.I said I was doing all that.I wanted to keep the conversation short, so I finally said,"Ping you back. I am shopping."
She didn't reply to that.-->Strike one
So pinged her back in the night,"U there".no response.-->Strike 2
After half an hour or so knowing that she had checked her whatsapp message, I pinged her again and she didn't respond.-->Strike 3
I stopped completely and haven't pinged her again and don't intend to as I realise this is major disrespect.
I realised couple of things.....
1. This is power game.
2. She thinks she got me back and has the upper hand.
3. This is a **** test. wants to see if I will lose my sanity.
My first reaction was, this girl is being silly.
I realise respect is a two way street.
I have no problem going completely ghost.Thanks to this forum I have my balls in my hands.I was an AFC and I am just learning the ropes.
Some pointers as to what's going on here would be helpful.
I know I am not going to initiate anything again. She lost her chance.
The way I see it, unless this girl learns to respect me this isn't going anywhere.
