"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright, so here's the deal. Me and the girl im withl have been playing this game for almost a week, and whoever wins gets a prize. I won the last 3 times, and i got 3 kisses(2 missed, and only one got on the lips. it was also our first kiss) so that was my prize. This time, i decided to kinda lay back and let the girl win and i told her that her prize was gonna be something different, but i dont really have any good ideas what the prize should be haha. I was thinking about holding her books for the day, which means i'm gonna be w/her for an entire day, but that idea kinda seems afc to me. You guys got any good idea's?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good idea

hey i am giving a good idea ,you can go on a sweet date to anywhere and on that place you can say your heart soil ,and after it you have girlfriend if she accepted you .
 
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Well, i dont wanna go on another date cuz we just went on one and i dont wanna get too date happy. Any other idea's?
 
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I was going to say the holding books thing was stupid, but it really isn't. spin it in the right direction and have fun with it and spending more time with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yea, i think i got it. There is an assembly, and her prize is gonna be me sitting w/ her, and im gonna get my prize after :p
 
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Ooof bring some chocolates or something cheesy, my 2 cents. But... dont apear creepy when doing it.
 
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