"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bigdavis

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I used to be really fat and never tried with women. I've lost 130lbs so far this year and I was wondering if you guys would look at my before and after and tell me if it's about time that I start going out and try to get some hotties. I've been dating some barely above average chicks and I'm thinking it might be time to step it up a notch.

Without sounding gay, What do you think? :p

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dav22

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You should always try talking to girls, whether you're sucessful or not - it's all practice. The fact you've made this post obviously means your more confident in yourself so it must be the best time to start.

BTW you've got my respect for the weight loss, it's good to hear about people taking action.
 

Interceptor

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Make sure you build confidence on your new you, and your NEW experiences. Don't let htose old voicces have their way with you or your actions. Becaue they will try to dictate what you can and cannot do.
Create your new REALITY.

Think to yourself:

"THIS is MY NEW REALITY."

Don't listen to the negative self talk.

Read up on all the seduction m,aterial btw. Take a boot camp, and numebr one rule"
Look for social interaction and social stimulus, not video games or online. Keep that to just what you nee to read for self develpment.

Look into this too:
http://www.innergametapping.com/
 

MooseGod

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damn, well first of all congrats! that's quite an achievement. You just look like a fairly beefy guy now... I see guys that look like you with good looking chicks quite a bit. Remember, confidence is everything. Good luck with your new life :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Royal Ace

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130lbs, holy crap nice work ;D

mind if i ask how did that go? pm me if you want


gz and don't worry, you've got what it take. and after making that huge improvement on yourself you know you've got it. (hell, everyone does.)
 

SickAgain

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You have made huge improvement in your life. I don't think you will have any problem getting hot chicks if your game is on point.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Nice work on loosing weight!! Now, go start mac'n women!
 

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Thanks guys.

I lost the weight by eating between 1000-1200 calories a day for 8 months. I also did a lot of weight training in the gym.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Keep up the healthy eating and weight lifting.
 

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Whoa you lose a **** load of weight good job dude. You should always try to step it up. I think your ready. You should still workout and eat well though.
 

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Thats a sick transformation man, post about it on health and fitness.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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Thats an incredible loss man.

Outstanding work.

Not only should you post it in Health and Fitness here but in the Before and After section of the Weight Loss Forum site.

I'm linking you to the best story of weight loss on that site so far.

I hope you post your transformation there too as all the people over there appreciate success stories greatly and you can be another mentor to posters there with a lot to lose like Ironman is who lost 235lbs in 10 months.

http://weight-loss.fitness.com/before-after-between/13150-235lbs-10-months.html
 
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DJVladdy

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Bravo
How old are you - mid 20's?
Honest opinion?
You look like someone with good genetics and high testosterone =
a. lose those love handles
b. you can get even more muscular no problem.

Think about a tatoo/ peircings, probably will be good for you, but up to you of course

Hair and facial hair fit you well i think.

But overall everything is good, very nice job
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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