need helpwith a flirty, comeback text..

[chrisgoodrich25]

I posted awhile back how..I went on a bad date with a chick..and even told her so.. told her i would giver her a second chance..(see my previous thread)

I ALSO later posted about getting stuck back in e_mail zone (i met her online) and asked about persistance>>most people said not to try and fix the danger zone>>>well iff i see something i want i go after it>>just being patient

so after a couple of weeks with no contact with this chick..i get really drunk and text really late..alot of crap mainly..well she hasn't returned an e-mail, call, or text in a couple of weeks..after my last late night text to her at 430 am..she replies at 7 am saying "lol huh. sorry i dont understand u all to often..going back to bed gnite"
I text the next afternoon. " hope i didn't get you into trouble with the late night text..idont drink hard liquor for a reason..lol. i was so hungerover this morning it wasn't even funny"..I know she lives by herself and doesn't have a boyfriend well a steady one at least...

so i expected that to be that..except today she sends me a text saying "why would i get into trouble for a late night text"

Its taken weeks to get a reply out this chick..so i need a good comeback text.. to get her interested again.probaly a little provacative and light .since somehow i have made it back into text mode..please I could use everyones help here..Also i do have other plates in the air and realize theres a slim cance of me ever getting any further with this chick..but have to at least try...but won't be any worse if if i get no where..thanks guys

 

[Captain]

She is not interested. You killed any attraction by sending her pointless texts and emails. When you get a woman number, you use it to call her and set up a meeting, not to attempt to flirt with her through text messages.

 

[Captain]

(double post)

 

[scrouds]

I think the only thing missing at this point is for you to declare your undying love to her.

No, seriously, don't do that. Get over her already, how long has it been?

That's right. Too long.

 

[Soprano]

ah man thats brutal.... i hate sayin this but id just stop with the texts...either call her and set up a date, or do nothin....

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

ah man thats brutal.... i hate sayin this but id just stop with the texts...either call her and set up a date, or do nothin....

wow you are being brutal..guess it seems pretty desperate huh..well its not a big deal I have alot of other chicks I have been dealing with latley..but non of you guys believe in that steady persistance? you know chicks can be weird right.. so what i need is a good comback text..cause it won't hurt for me to try if I'm not losing anything right..why you give up so easy..seems as though othing is impossible if you work it right...how do you achieve anything with such a lack of follow through...

 

[Soprano]

wow you are being brutal..guess it seems pretty desperate huh..well its not a big deal I have alot of other chicks I have been dealing with latley..but non of you guys believe in that steady persistance? you know chicks can be weird right.. so what i need is a good comback text..cause it won't hurt for me to try if I'm not losing anything right..why you give up so easy..seems as though othing is impossible if you work it right...how do you achieve anything with such a lack of follow through...

im not sayin give up..im sayin call her lol and set something up...either that or nothin, cuz at this point the other stuff is a waste of time unfortunately

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

im not sayin give up..im sayin call her lol and set something up...either that or nothin, cuz at this point the other stuff is a waste of time unfortunately

yea tried that if you read my earlier post, it says i kinda told her it was the worst date ive ever been on..i guess it has been alot of trouble..huh all well..so ideas on a good comeback then huh..I think if i start wit something funny and distant..kinda take off any pressure..i could get her to call me than the other way around...again i look at this like a challenge..since i have other plates up in the air..its not to big a deal..but i do like her..i know she intially liked me and would like me again should i get the chance to hang out..i just need to get that far..

 

[Igetit!]

I don't understand what the purpose is of you getting a "flirty,comeback text" to send her.


Let's say someone did come up with something clever for you to say.
Once you sent it to her,what is it you're hoping will happen?


What do you want her to do?


You're not expecting for us to come up with some slick line that'll make her fall in love with you...are you? :crackup:



It's funny how so many guys will get caught up in trying to flirt and making a girl laugh,that they forget to simply ASK HER OUT.



If the outcome of this "flirty comeback" you're seeking is for her to agree to another date with you,then fine,but it'll have to stimulate her emotions FIRST...then you'll have to ask her out.


Don't just flirt,come up with funny one liners and witty comebacks,then don't ask her out.


If you do,that's dancing monkey territory.


She'll feel no attraction for you,but because she'll still laughing at everything you say,you won't know it until one day when she tells you about the "new" guy she just met.



You shouldn't be attempting to gain her interest over the internet anyway,that is,if you have her number.

If not,then maybe one of the other posters can come up with some funny remark for you to use.

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

I don't understand what the purpose is of you getting a "flirty,comeback text" to send her.


Let's say someone did come up with something clever for you to say.
Once you sent it to her,what is it you're hoping will happen?


What do you want her to do?


You're not expecting for us to come up with some slick line that'll make her fall in love with you...are you? :crackup:



It's funny how so many guys will get caught up in trying to flirt and making a girl laugh,that they forget to simply ASK HER OUT.



If the outcome of this "flirty comeback" you're seeking is for her to agree to another date with you,then fine,but it'll have to stimulate her emotions FIRST...then you'll have to ask her out.


Don't just flirt,come up with funny one liners and witty comebacks,then don't ask her out.


If you do,that's dancing monkey territory.


She'll feel no attraction for you,but because she'll still laughing at everything you say,you won't know it until one day when she tells you about the "new" guy she just met.



You shouldn't be attempting to gain her interest over the internet anyway,that is,if you have her number.

If not,then maybe one of the other posters can come up with some funny remark for you to use.

im all about asking her out again..and no i dont expect her to fall in love with me...i'm just wanting to try and restart communication..see she ecepeted my appollogy intially and reopened her lines of communication..via e-mail..right away i did away with the e-mail and tried calling..a little to pushy i think..this exilled the communication..so now that some time has passed and she seems to be willing to communicate again..i want to do it a little slower..so she feels no pressure and would initiate communication herself...possibly or if enough ttime/texting took place i would feel more compforatable calling..

also i was thinking about it..but she could be a little nuts to have even texted me back..( i know i stirred up some emotion..not posisitve)..cause if the situation would have been reversed I would't have ever texted back.....i feel stuped but realize i prefer to take my time with the girls i'm meeting..i have no problem with confidence around them and have a very good alpha attractivness.i'm funny..good lookig and fit..although very poor (but that doesn't really matter .I'm not shy in the pressence of women I talk to new ones whenever i go out...I don't know

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

im all about asking her out again..and no i dont expect her to fall in love with me...i'm just wanting to try and restart communication..see she ecepeted my appollogy intially and reopened her lines of communication..via e-mail..right away i did away with the e-mail and tried calling..a little to pushy i think..this exilled the communication..so now that some time has passed and she seems to be willing to communicate again..i want to do it a little slower..so she feels no pressure and would initiate communication herself...possibly or if enough ttime/texting took place i would feel more compforatable calling..

also i was thinking about it..but she could be a little nuts to have even texted me back..( i know i stirred up some emotion..not posisitve)..cause if the situation would have been reversed I would't have ever texted back.....i feel stuped but realize i prefer to take my time with the girls i'm meeting..i have no problem with confidence around them and have a very good alpha attractivness.i'm funny..good lookig and fit..although very poor (but that doesn't really matter .I'm not shy in the pressence of women I talk to new ones whenever i go out...I don't know

as an update..i text her "your mentor might not approve" which got a response fairly quickly about 2 hours...

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

as an update..i text her "your mentor might not approve" which got a response fairly quickly about 2 hours...

then ended up having her text the **** out of me..but not in a good sense..long story short
she text me were cool with a wink..i didn't reply so i have a chance to reply later...I do know whats gets her riled up now though..also as an update i have 7 communicaions going with internet broads...8 communications with borads on the phone..seperate girls obviously..and about 3 I see on a regular but wont **** up with cause they give me free beer at the bar...so unless i see a real good opening i wont touch them...

 

[Igetit!]

then ended up having her text the **** out of me..but not in a good sense..long story short
she text me were cool with a wink..i didn't reply so i have a chance to reply later...I do know whats gets her riled up now though..

I still don't understand what the point of all this is though.


In your original post,you said that it's taken you "weeks" just to get a reply out of her.


So this has been going on for a while.


Who know how many other guys she's done been out with and dated in the time this "texting" has been going on between you two.


And you say that she "text the **** out of you,and not in a good way".

So it's taken you weeks and weeks just to get that out of her?



Are you desperate or something? If you have other options,and I mean real,live plausible options,not women where it takes 5 weeks just to get a text out of,then why not toss this nonsense to the curb and focus more on them.


At the rate your going with this girl,it'll be almost Thanksgiving before you get another text out of her.

Trick that dude.

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

I still don't understand what the point of all this is though.


In your original post,you said that it's taken you "weeks" just to get a reply out of her.


So this has been going on for a while.


Who know how many other guys she's done been out with and dated in the time this "texting" has been going on between you two.


And you say that she "text the **** out of you,and not in a good way".

So it's taken you weeks and weeks just to get that out of her?



Are you desperate or something? If you have other options,and I mean real,live plausible options,not women where it takes 5 weeks just to get a text out of,then why not toss this nonsense to the curb and focus more on them.


At the rate your going with this girl,it'll be almost Thanksgiving before you get another text out of her.

Trick that dude.

i see where your going with that..and no im not desperate..I am seeing other girls and don't give a **** if shes seeing other guys..because shes not my girl.. and yes Id like to just next her..but theres something about this chick that gets to me..I'm quite tired of it actually..but it seems like the infatuation wont die no matter how many other girls i meet, date and what not...;perhaps I have issues..hell Sometimes i feal like i'm in love with like 5 diferent girls at the same time..kinda creepy huh..i'm not rying to fight with her..but it seems like when i make contact with sincerity..theres no reply..but if I conact her with some wierd ass **** she hits me right back up..i don't know it doesn't matter..for now I'm not going to text her back..she sent the last text so i kinda feel like i have the upperhand..obviously she knows i'm interested..but get this..we don't communicate for awhile and i do really good wit other women..as soon as we communicate again..I find myself nexting the **** out of chicks....what the fuuck!!!any suggestions for that ****?