"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've been bodybuilding for years. I'm on a strict diet and strict routine. I have a couple problems.

1. My routeine is flawed. I'm finally making some gains in my chest, arns, back, and shoulders with my new workout plan, but now I'm looking my leg strength. I mean, I was squatting 315 for like six sets of 6-8 a few months ago and now I'm having trouble with 285 for that much. My bench is catching up to my squat!!!! Seems like I can't get my form right or something. Wtf, is this just because I don't deadlift much anymore? I've been pushing a hernia (sp?) and my roommate just had surgery for one, so I stopped deadlifting and lunging, but I've been doing leg extensions, curls, and presses.

2. My diet (feels like) is flawed. I can't get gains without having a nice layer covering my abs and it fawking sucks having huge abs without definition. I'm eating a good six meals a day so my calorie intake is good. I also supplement well.

Can someone set me straight, because I'm about to throw some bucks away to a pro bodybuilder for personal training. I appreciate input, thanks.

I'm 6'1" and 200 (varying) lbs. PIC: http://photos-488.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v73/220/58/2054690/n2054690_39615488_3976.jpg
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For breakfast - 6 eggs, 4 slices turkey bacon, oatmeal
2nd - 2 slices wheat bread piled with turkey
3rd- chicken breast and rice
4th - preworkout shake
5th- afterworkout shake, followed by meal (meat,carb,green) within an hour later
6th- two scoops protein with water and couple tablespoons peanut butter

I've been doing this everyday for over a year and a half. I've done some changing up through different programs, but stayed basically the same.
 

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Sexual said:
Can someone set me straight, because I'm about to throw some bucks away to a pro bodybuilder for personal training.[/url]
If your going to throw some bucks away throw some bucks away to Wesley at ironaddicts.com.
 

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Sexual said:
For breakfast - 6 eggs, 4 slices turkey bacon, oatmeal
2nd - 2 slices wheat bread piled with turkey
3rd- chicken breast and rice
4th - preworkout shake
5th- afterworkout shake, followed by meal (meat,carb,green) within an hour later
6th- two scoops protein with water and couple tablespoons peanut butter

I've been doing this everyday for over a year and a half. I've done some changing up through different programs, but stayed basically the same.
Perhaps you should turn to real food instead of protein shakes more often,just something to consider.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EFFORT said:
If your going to throw some bucks away throw some bucks away to Wesley at ironaddicts.com.
I'm not sure what you mean by throwing away money there, but thanks for the reference. I'm checking it out now.
 

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Sexual said:
I'm not sure what you mean by throwing away money there, but thanks for the reference. I'm checking it out now.
Professional athletes can't coach.
 

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Sexual said:
I've been bodybuilding for years. I'm on a strict diet and strict routine. I have a couple problems.

1. My routeine is flawed. I'm finally making some gains in my chest, arns, back, and shoulders with my new workout plan, but now I'm looking my leg strength. I mean, I was squatting 315 for like six sets of 6-8 a few months ago and now I'm having trouble with 285 for that much. My bench is catching up to my squat!!!! Seems like I can't get my form right or something. Wtf, is this just because I don't deadlift much anymore? I've been pushing a hernia (sp?) and my roommate just had surgery for one, so I stopped deadlifting and lunging, but I've been doing leg extensions, curls, and presses.

2. My diet (feels like) is flawed. I can't get gains without having a nice layer covering my abs and it fawking sucks having huge abs without definition. I'm eating a good six meals a day so my calorie intake is good. I also supplement well.

Can someone set me straight, because I'm about to throw some bucks away to a pro bodybuilder for personal training. I appreciate input, thanks.

I'm 6'1" and 200 (varying) lbs. PIC: http://photos-488.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v73/220/58/2054690/n2054690_39615488_3976.jpg
1) You're squat is stuck. Do the 1 step back 2 step forward method. Take 220lbs. Do 5x5. Squat 3times a week. Add 5lbs each workout. One month later you'll do 5x5 with 285lbs without any problem. Continue and you'll go for +300lbs before stalling again.

2) Hernia. Check your technique on both the squat & the deadlift. Read this on deadlift safety

3) If you want to invest money, buy Starting Strength & Practical Programming. You'll never need a coach again, you'll be your own coach: technique, how to make programs that work,... Total price 55$, you have a money back guarantee from amazon.

good luck.
 

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I appreciate your input. When my squats goes to ****, I always take a step back to reevaluate my form. It has a lot to do with switching gyms- I always felt more comfortable with squats barefoot because of the track shoes I'd come dressed in, but now that I'm in a new gym I have no wear shoes so I switched. Also, thanks for the deadlift link. I will redevelop my form.
 
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