Hey guy's it's me again! I nned some of your help, you see today as in Saturday I went out DJ'ng and talked to maybe 9 women today and I think 3 2sets....what I need help on is how do you close for the number and get it? I kept on getting denied or boyfriend the bottom line I wasnt getting the number....any tips on maybe getting my chances higher? I can talk to women easily its just closing that's the problem it seem....plus I got a girl that I put up on a pedistal's number and were going to bowl tommorow! It's a long story so if you wanna hear it just reply and ask ok other then that thanks guys and thanks for all the tips!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need helping closing for #
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's great you can approach so many women because that's the hardest part. If all you do is try to bum a smoke from them you'll get lucky once in awhile.
You can look up on how to get chicks numbers from all the gurus -- they all have their techniques -- but if you have the balls to approach with no problem you should forget numbers and just close them on leaving with you. It doesn't have to be to your place right away, just somewhere else where you can be alone with them.
You'll feel better too, because it must really suck not to be able to get their fvcking number. At least if they decline your offer to go and look at the full moon in the parking lot with you or something it's more understandable.
They'll have more respect for you too. And trust me, you will get some takers if you keep at it.
You can look up on how to get chicks numbers from all the gurus -- they all have their techniques -- but if you have the balls to approach with no problem you should forget numbers and just close them on leaving with you. It doesn't have to be to your place right away, just somewhere else where you can be alone with them.
You'll feel better too, because it must really suck not to be able to get their fvcking number. At least if they decline your offer to go and look at the full moon in the parking lot with you or something it's more understandable.
They'll have more respect for you too. And trust me, you will get some takers if you keep at it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hmm ok I'll see a girl Im interested in and then go for it...I dont check to see if their married or have a promise ring. The only thing I look for is who they are with, other then that I just go talk to them. I dont ask if they are single but I do ask who they are with ..if they want to bring up they have a BF then Ill just say ok thanks anyways. But other then that I've been opening up with a canned liner (My own) and go on from their maybe transition into what they did for halloween and what they dressed up as. I was actually doing pretty good with a couple of them but I still can close!!!! Plus it is true most girls dont tell you they have a bf until maybe late into the convo, I asked this girl for her num and she said she had a bf she was maybe a 7.7 (big butt) . Anything else?
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Whats amazing is the inadvertent opener I fell on a couple of weeks ago.
I forgot my lighter, and I walked up to a girl and said "Guess what I'm going to ask you for"
So she pulled out her lighter, and I continued talking because she was chatting up a storm.
Finally when I wrapped up, I got her number, and she said to me "I thought thats what you were approaching me to ask."
I'm glad I closed.
I forgot my lighter, and I walked up to a girl and said "Guess what I'm going to ask you for"
So she pulled out her lighter, and I continued talking because she was chatting up a storm.
Finally when I wrapped up, I got her number, and she said to me "I thought thats what you were approaching me to ask."
I'm glad I closed.
The biggest thing that holds guys back from asking a girl for their number is the fact that they COULD be "rejected" when they ask. I mean, she could have a big tough boyfriend, other people could be watching and you'd look stupid, etc. But you'll never get what you want unless you go for it.
All you have to do is talk to a girl (about whatever) for a few minutes. As long as you don't play the questions game (where do you go to school? where are you from? what sports do you play? what's your favorite food?) or look like a complete tool you'll probably get it. Just relax, talk to her about something you have in common, something in the environment, whatever comes up. Most women are really nice and will talk to you about whatever you approach them with. Sometimes you won't get the number, but it's usually because of a reason outside your control (has a b/f, in a bad mood, etc.)
After you've talked to her for a few minutes, just say "Hey it was really great talking to you, I have to get going, but you should give me your number and we'll talk." I usually give her my number so she knows who's calling when I do. But yeah, it's pretty easy. Just remember that rejection is better than regret. Even if you get turned down, it's not like they say "No I don't give my numbers out to losers" or something like that. Usually they'll say "I have a b/f" or "I don't give my number out to people I don't know". These girls usually aren't any fun anyway, usually got a stick up their @ss for whatever reason.
WTF Tookie? A promise ring? Something tells me you're not joking around either. LOL
All you have to do is talk to a girl (about whatever) for a few minutes. As long as you don't play the questions game (where do you go to school? where are you from? what sports do you play? what's your favorite food?) or look like a complete tool you'll probably get it. Just relax, talk to her about something you have in common, something in the environment, whatever comes up. Most women are really nice and will talk to you about whatever you approach them with. Sometimes you won't get the number, but it's usually because of a reason outside your control (has a b/f, in a bad mood, etc.)
After you've talked to her for a few minutes, just say "Hey it was really great talking to you, I have to get going, but you should give me your number and we'll talk." I usually give her my number so she knows who's calling when I do. But yeah, it's pretty easy. Just remember that rejection is better than regret. Even if you get turned down, it's not like they say "No I don't give my numbers out to losers" or something like that. Usually they'll say "I have a b/f" or "I don't give my number out to people I don't know". These girls usually aren't any fun anyway, usually got a stick up their @ss for whatever reason.
WTF Tookie? A promise ring? Something tells me you're not joking around either. LOL
Hmm I see ya I dont really care if I get rejected that much since it doesnt affect me as much as it does to some other guys. But it is getting kinda annoying that my record is maybe 4/10 it seems pretty bad when you think about it all I'm really asking is how to improve my odds to maybe 8/10. I think I got into the question game a little to much like today I went up to a girl (8th grader !!!! coudnt tell!) and asked what was better to make apple pie or cherry pie (opener for holidays) we talked for a while and I asked what she did for halloween, what costume, any good trick or treat places for next year and so on...I finally find out she's to young...even for me 
. The reason I said that is ...is that to much questions or what should I do?
. The reason I said that is ...is that to much questions or what should I do?“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
No, it's always good to ask people about themselves. The most important thing to talk about for anyone (ESPECIALLY GIRLS) is themselves.
Have you ever seen a guy who can't hold a conversation with someone so he'll rattle off a million un-related questions to try to keep it going? That's who I'm referring to. Don't be that guy.
Have you ever seen a guy who can't hold a conversation with someone so he'll rattle off a million un-related questions to try to keep it going? That's who I'm referring to. Don't be that guy.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
better rapport or display more value in yourself. Do a search or look in the DJ bible to figure out more
lol Mfiend I actually read your "FR" already! I have lots of tabs open all the time not just this one! I have the boot camp open the "How to get number and split" "30 sec's is all it takes" and the pulse procedure open right now! I think I actually talk to fast sometimes though, like today I opened a women that looked like a mom ...maybe a hb8.3 nice legs nice body everything only thing she had a lip percing ok back on topic I talked but I talked way to fast I thought, I even though about it when I was talking to her lol but I could tell she wasnt that interested so I backed off. I dont know what to do lol I dont know if I have a problem or not.