"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im afraid of girls and Im not gay, I've already had a gf. Im 19 in college.

I feel anxiety around girls and the anxiety goes up as they get prettier.

I cant sarge, or open up random girls, and Im sick of it. I want to talk to girls with a Zen like ease.

I've been on these boards for quite sometime, Ive read all these posts.

Anyone out there on this board who feels like me?

I know woman are attacted to guys with balls and nerve and the guys who go around sarging meeting, insulting, dancing, hitting on, flirting know the mating dance.

Im a afraid of girls anyone else?
Arent most guys wimps?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Try the bootcamp. Only way to get over something is to deal directly with it but you already know this.
 
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hm.

I cant get myself to do even the first step which is to say hi to random people, I feel Like I would rather die, than do that.
 
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uve been here for a long time saying this over and over...you need to seek a therapist
 
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