"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jfong

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What up,
I really need some advice--tried to talk to this girl the other day, failed miserably while being **** blocked by her friend...lol should i talk to her monday, what do i say...I'm new to the site-- are there any general advice/posts/guides that I should take a look at?
Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jfong said:
What up,
I really need some advice--tried to talk to this girl the other day, failed miserably while being **** blocked by her friend...lol should i talk to her monday, what do i say...I'm new to the site-- are there any general advice/posts/guides that I should take a look at?
Thanks
Read my post in this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208485
 

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Try kino or move on.

-well the only thing i can think to do is your average general talking techniques, witch generally tend to be look for information she gives you and use that to hold up the conversation, but if she sort of doesnt want to talk to you its best to either move on or attempt kino (Friendly non intrusive touch).She may just lighten up if you try this. As for her ****blocking friend you mentioned, the only thing I can think to do is to flirt with her as well as the other girl. Or find a time when shes away from her friend... difficult to do at times knowing how girls seem to never like being left away from there "Best Friend".
-If the conversation seems to fall flat, its either that your not picking up on her conversation hints and following up on them, or that she doesn't really want to talk to you in witch I suggest MOVE ON! Never get stuck on a girl either. Best of luck -ISAIAH:up:
 
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