Need Help!

[Mando]

Hi everyone, I've been lurking around these forums for a while, but I decided I should finally register.

Ok, so I was in math class with this girl for all of last year. For the first half of the year I wasn't really into her, but we moved seats and ended up sitting next to each other, and once I started to get to know her I started to like her a lot. I'd say she's about a 9.5/10, and has a great personality to go along with that. Anyways, so things were going great, she was showing a lot of interest, such as always starting up conversations, asking me for my number, texting me, etc.
So I was bugging her about her staying home doing nothing one day(about a month and a half ago), and she basically told me to ask her out on a movie date. So I did, and after I said that we should go to a haunted house she's been wanting to go to, and she agreed. Now, twice that I asked(about two weeks inbetween each time), she was legitamately busy, and once was a dance competition that she wanted me to go watch her dance in, but it was soldout. So we text back and forth for about a month, talking every day, and then school gets out. We continue to text each other etc etc, and she's still showing interest, and then out of nowhere, last Monday she didn't respond to a text. So I'm like ok, w/e maybe she lost her phone. So Thursday I texted her again, just saying "Hey, whatsup?" and got no response.
I don't want to keep bugging/annoying her by texting every few days, and I'm at the point that I have no idea what to do. Its hard for me to just let it go, and the last time we talked was last Sunday. If anyone could help out I'd appreciate it a lot.

Edit: She's a year younger than me, forgot to mention that. I'm going to college next year she's going to be a Senior.

Thanks in advance,
-Mando

 

[kraytkiller]

So what. Forget about her, and don't text her again until she texts you. You say it's going to be hard for you? Oh well. Summon up your manly willpower. It can be done.

 

[Mando]

Alright cool, I'll try that out. If she doesn't text me I guess I'll just move on haha. Thanks again

 

[Analyzeit]

Pretty sure you missed your chance on that one, hardly making any move in a month or more, you just make friends when you do that. so do what kraytkiller said

 

[Mando]

Yeah the few times I tried to make a move she was busy =/. She also had a bf about 2 and half months ago so it was hard to make a move then, even though she ended up stopping walking with him and walking with me to class instead haha. Thanks again guys, appreciate it.

Also, I met this cute girl at my college orientation today, maybe moving on won't be as hard as I though

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Ok first of all you were moving too slow...texting and talking everyday at school most likely puts the two of you in the "just friends" category.

Man I've liked girls in math class. Ahh there were some fine ones back when I took algebra 2 honors. Damn lol I wish I was doin this stuff back then

Anyway...yeah girls do that weird shyt where they call you a lot then suddenly just stop. I think it's fvcked up when they say they'll call you back, then constantly forget...that's just some bullshyt, don't let it get to you though, it's normal as far as a girl's actions go...

And about the having a boyfriend thing...Imagine you have a girlfriend that you're happy with, and then you meet this interesting girl who you really get along with and seem to like. You're absolutely going to show interest in her! But you're not gonna dump your girlfriend for her (note that this is what normal people do, not what *******s do unless their relationship is falling to pieces anyway.)

She kinda played you though man. I mean she liked you as a friend, but your relationship never got sexual. She was just overly flirty or something. I believe that you NEED to touch to create an actual relationship. You don't have to touch her at all until you actually take her out on a date, but even if you just kiss her, that's enough to get your situation set. But still, touching is only one part of the equation.

Hope that helps...and yeah moving on is easy and fun!
Rejection is awesome because it motivates you to search for new opportunities.

 

[Mando]

Yeah idk if she thought of me as just a friend or not, she threw a lot of IoI's but who knows they could've been fake. I just have no idea what could have changed her mind haha. Oh well, moving on wasn't as bad as I thought, plus I probably should learn now to not get attached so easily. College here I come .