pjtheman
Don Juan
I'm going out with this girl at school whose realy great and i've got no problems with. The only thing is her mother's a teacher at the scholl and i swear since we started dating she's been out to get me! what do I do about it!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.