"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey whatsup fellow DJ's, its been a while since ive posted, and ive run into a little problem..

i need help with a good icebreaker to use on approaching this group of chicks... usually i wouldnt have a prob., but theres a chick there that i wanna get with and i know her name and a bit about her, but she doesnt know me, and neither do her friends, so if you guys know any recommendations on how to approach and get her away from her little group without a wing, i would really appreciate it, itll be a cold approach so i dont want to seem awkward

thnx
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Easy as pie!

Use a disarming opener. Ask for the time, directions or whatever.

Pretend you dont know this girl at all or you will come off like a stalker.

Chat up her pals. Be observant and notice details. After they are opened you can run the Jealous Girlfriend Opener..never fails to warm up a cold approach!

"Hey guys, I need an outside opinion on this. My friend is dating this girl and everything is going great. One day she finds a shoebox full of pictures of his Ex-Girl. This really pisses her off so she burns all of these pictures! What the hell? Is it just me or is my friend dating a total psycho??"

Then you let them talk because girls just wont shut up once you feed them this opener...

Remember, you dont open with this, first you use disarming opener, then after you are IN, you run this and the convo should crack open. Done be afraid to be direct once you notice IOIs from the girl. THen you go for number close or InstaDate..

GooLuck!
 
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thanks alot don ronny, i will definately use that jelous approach, but as for the opener, its kinda useles to ask that at skool, directions to where, the cafeteria? i need somethin that will blow them away, and then ill use the jelous gf gig.... o and wat are IOI's?
 
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Naw man. You dont wanna go in guns blazing.

Open them with something casual, THEN move into your killer material..otherwise you look like you are trying too hard!

IOI = Indicator of Interest

This can be smiles, eye contact, or any other signal that the girl is attracted/intrigued.

Easy Pimpin dawg!
 
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Hello my name is EgyptianLover, and I understand that your name is...."

Your making a mountin out of a mole hill. You have already defeated yourself.

How?

Because you put her in the special catagory. Now your like one of those ancient biblical people in the presence of an angel...bowing and scraping the ground...

DO NOT...put her on a pedistal in orbit over you.

She takes a dump like every girl out there. She probably wacks off like most of them do too. She is not big deal. Don't make her so.

Walk up and introduce yourself. If she is diggin you then cool. If not so be it and walk away and move on.

Never get hung up on one woman. Nobody is the source of your happiness but you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thanks guys, great advice, i really appreciate it!
 
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