"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hesten

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Guys,

Need help reading this one. Met a woman and her parents in a store last week. They are from the same part of country as I am( we both live in a different area and seem like foreigners). We got talking for an hr or so. Parents left and daughter comes back and asks for my email / gives me hers & her mothers. She lives 2 hrs a way and vists parents every few weeks. Next morning she sends me an email. Sends two more over the next day or so. I respond back to her initial one. She is my age ( early 30's and married). She *****es about her work alot. Comes from some money and has that slightly *****y aura to her. Real professional type.

Do married women do this sort of stuff just to have someone to exchange occasional emails with? I paid her a few suttle compliments in the e-mail( keeping it sexual) and she replied I am a smooth talker.

Please give your opinion..

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElChoclo

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Obviously she was not being (sic) suttle. You got both email addresses because she was wanting to organise a threesome, with her mother as the third party. Makes perfect sense to me. What did you put in your email, something like "Hi, I'd like to *** and see you sometime" you smooth talking devil.
 

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ElChoclo said:
Obviously she was not being (sic) suttle. You got both email addresses because she was wanting to organise a threesome, with her mother as the third party. Makes perfect sense to me. What did you put in your email, something like "Hi, I'd like to *** and see you sometime" you smooth talking devil.
That's some BANGBROS type sh!t there brother!:moon:
 

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Guys,

Need help reading this one. Met a woman and her parents in a store last week. They are from the same part of country as I am( we both live in a different area and seem like foreigners). We got talking for an hr or so. Parents left and daughter comes back and asks for my email / gives me hers & her mothers. She lives 2 hrs a way and vists parents every few weeks. Next morning she sends me an email. Sends two more over the next day or so. I respond back to her initial one. She is my age ( early 30's and married). She *****es about her work alot. Comes from some money and has that slightly *****y aura to her. Real professional type.

Do married women do this sort of stuff just to have someone to exchange occasional emails with? I paid her a few suttle compliments in the e-mail( keeping it sexual) and she replied I am a smooth talker.

Please give your opinion..

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mcqueen207

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Desdinova said:
You've already got two reasons NOT to date this woman:

1) Her attitude sucks
2) She lives far away.

Now, tell me why you SHOULD date her.
Not to mention that she is MARRIED
 

Desdinova

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Yeah, I missed that when I initially read the post.

Here's three reasons to date other women instead and toss this smelly fish away:

1) Local women
2) Local women who are single
3) Local single women who are decent

If you happen to make her a fb and her husband finds out, you might end up with trouble on your hands.
 

BobFuest

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i notice ALOT of married women like to flirt and have ideas over the web. they see it as harmless. I have met many playing online poker and got all kinds of naked pictures and things. Its fun but I wouldnt actually see any of them physically. you really want to break up someone's marriage?
 
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