HeY, haven't approached girls in a mad long time and do have some anxiety...last approach was in september and just said hey watsup to a girl and just froze. There are these two girls that I know have interest in me (see them staring at me when I walk past them in the hallway) that I want to approach and get them to become Friends with benefits just to have sex with them. One of the girls is a junior and the other is a sophmore and I am a senior. I just want to get experience and gain some comfort after doing this. That way I can cold approach at malls and even if I fail on a approach I still have back up girls to go to lol. But starting tomorrow im planning on just saying "hey watsup, I am going to class, but I would kill myself if i got ova there and didnt come talk to you...hey watsup im ________. then tell them that they are adorable, and wanted to kno if they can hangout afta school to get to know each other. Just wanted to know your intake on this and if I am doing the right thing cause Im just a newbie basically.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need Help with the two girls going to approach
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