Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need Help with the two girls going to approach

Jamal

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HeY, haven't approached girls in a mad long time and do have some anxiety...last approach was in september and just said hey watsup to a girl and just froze. There are these two girls that I know have interest in me (see them staring at me when I walk past them in the hallway) that I want to approach and get them to become Friends with benefits just to have sex with them. One of the girls is a junior and the other is a sophmore and I am a senior. I just want to get experience and gain some comfort after doing this. That way I can cold approach at malls and even if I fail on a approach I still have back up girls to go to lol. But starting tomorrow im planning on just saying "hey watsup, I am going to class, but I would kill myself if i got ova there and didnt come talk to you...hey watsup im ________. then tell them that they are adorable, and wanted to kno if they can hangout afta school to get to know each other. Just wanted to know your intake on this and if I am doing the right thing cause Im just a newbie basically.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bring your cell phone..........and stop double posting
 

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Lol your problem is you read too much theory, but you don't get out in the field and test this stuff.

Who gives a fvck what you say, just get out there and say something.
 

Jamal

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It's-Me said:
Lol your problem is you read too much theory, but you don't get out in the field and test this stuff.

Who gives a fvck what you say, just get out there and say something.
Your right that was the best answer for me, haven't done any approaches cause of anxiety and always use excuses. I just have to do it.
 
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