Need Help with the girls.

[blackshoes]

Over the past year I have had this really bad
experience with girls. The first girl i asked out
rejected me, the second thought I was a stalker, when
in fact she was flattered but she still didnt want to
go out with me, the third liked me, went out with me,
but then after two weeks wanted to be just freinds. So
now I'm on the brink of forgetting about girls
completely. PLEASE help me. Seriously this is a real bad situation.
thanks,
James.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

hey blackshoes, congratulations on stepping out of your comfortable zone to meet women, haha, you could teach some of the so-called experienced don juan keyboard jockeys here to do the same thing....

In getting women, it is not about technique, it is more about attitude. If you have not, read my post I did today on attitude, and it will explain what I am about to re-explain in this reply.

I dont want you to be mad at women, it is not their fault, and women are get people, dont allow some of these experienced don juan keyboard jockeys to just scream to you, BE A MAN, in which none of them know nothing about being a man.....real men, dont have to own women or control everybody else, real men, real men.......are in control of themselves and THAT is what makes everybody else attract to them

Read my post, and keep your smiling face and positive attitude. Take it out the door with you in the morning, and dont let anything outside snatch it off..

YOu are in control buddy, and it looks like women and the world are out to get you but in reality, we really love you......

 

[squirrels]

Relax.

The "stalker" impression, girls getting weirded out like that, is usually a result of you getting too concerned about "offending" girls or having them not like you.

Seriously...start to get in touch with your desires as a man. If you act like being close with women is "naughty" or "wrong", then when you approach them for that reason, you're going to act either apologetic or nervous or otherwise creepy...you're going to be deceptive about your intentions and you're going to "sneak around" instead of approaching her directly and just asking her out.

BTW guys, desperation does the SAME THING...makes you over-concerned about "busting the deal" because you NEED this, man, you NEED IT!! No girl wants to deal with that crap.

On the other hand, if you RELAX and be happy that you're a healthy guy with healthy male wants and needs and KNOW there's nothing wrong with that, then when you approach you're relaxed and comfortable and, in turn, she feels comfortable letting YOU know about her girly feelings.

You're an attractive male trying to spend physical time with attractive females. Regardless of what the feminazis and political correctors say, that's NATURAL and it should be FUN.

I know it's hard...sometimes my social conditioning STILL makes me shiver when I say sh!t like that because somewhere that conditioning still gives me a guilt-trip for thinking that way. But it's true.

 

[Wiesman44]

You're sample size is too small. 3 girls ? Please dude, you think you're gods gift to women ? Even if one out of every 3 girls liked you, that means 33% of all women would be interested in you ? You need to hit on more women.


Get in the right situation, converse, build rapport, seduce, get their #'s, and do this 50 times. See how many dates you get and how much ass you get, and then report back.

 

[blackshoes]

hmmm

hmm interesting. ill do what wise man says, but you know... Cupertino CA, all the girls are *****es who know thier hot, and just abuse it. thats the problem

but hey ill take the advice.

thanks guys