"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need help with possibly unfaithful g/f

jocca

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hey guys a friend of mine has been with his g/f now for about 6-7 weeks and from all reports they seemed pretty close. hes a good guy and I dont want to see him get burned. this girl has pictures of her and her ex kissing on her comp and it seems from not to long ago.

My friend brought it up to her and she immiediatly changed the subject seemingly not wanting to go into detail. seems to have a red flag about her also. She has brought up this ex in conversation on a few occasions. last time she said i didnt think id feel the way i did about her ex to my friend but im starting to feel that way about you.

opinions greatly appreciated
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you, I mean your friend shouldnt care too much about pictures she has. Lifes too short, nothing lasts forever anyway and I presume it's your I mean your friends d!ck she's still temporarily sliding down on yeah?

Worry about you for now. Be the best you can be and the rest will sort itself out.
 

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thats great advice man apart from the fact I dont have a g/f right now and it actually is a friend. thanks for the insincerity though. My friend is a devout christian and swears on no sex before mariage also. any other help would be appreciated
 

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jocca said:
thats great advice man apart from the fact I dont have a g/f right now and it actually is a friend. thanks for the insincerity though. My friend is a devout christian and swears on no sex before mariage also. any other help would be appreciated

girl's gota get a dlck from somewhere :yawn:

unless you got solid evidence, dont get involved
 

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jocca said:
thats great advice man apart from the fact I dont have a g/f right now and it actually is a friend. thanks for the insincerity though. My friend is a devout christian and swears on no sex before mariage also. any other help would be appreciated
Oh so you really were just minding someone elses business? In that case ignore my advice, youve got bigger problems.

But not as big as your mates.

jocca said:
My friend is a devout christian and swears on no sex before mariage also.
 

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What did the barber say? "NEXT!"

Strap a pair of balls under your friend's J, make him dump this floozy, then take him out and help him hook up with a new girl.
 

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You need to let Jesus worry about your friends problems. He'll forgive you for not butting in his business, if hes a good Christian. The Bible says in many psalms, to stay away from hors.
 

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Wow. So none of you with negative responses have any friends you consider are worth helping even when they ask you for it. Thats pretty sad.....But I'm sure in your mind a DJ doesnt have any real friends either right :down:
 

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jocca said:
Wow. So none of you with negative responses have any friends you consider are worth helping even when they ask you for it. Thats pretty sad.....But I'm sure in your mind a DJ doesnt have any real friends either right :down:

You never mentioned that he asked you for help :cry:

the only thing your friend can do about it is confront her and keep at it, don't just bail if she tries to change the subject.

or have him put a picture of him kissing some girl on his desktop and see how she likes it, if you wana do it the bltch way
 

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If it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen regardless of what your friend is doing. If he didn't see it coming, hopefully he will learn from it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jocca said:
thats great advice man apart from the fact I dont have a g/f right now and it actually is a friend. thanks for the insincerity though. My friend is a devout christian and swears on no sex before mariage also. any other help would be appreciated
Thats the problem right there. If she is used to **** and hes not giving it to her than she will probobly find it somewhere else.

There is this very cool guy that works with me. He pulls chicks very very easy, he is a really good dancer and pretty popular. He also doesnt want to have sex until merrige for religious purposes and even though he pulls some of the hottest chicks i have seen he can never make it last. He is a fun guy to be around but eventually after 1-2 months he usually gets dumped or LJBF'd. They always give him some gay excuse but i know its because he doesnt want to **** them .He told me that many girls have wanted to **** him and he was telling me how girls show him boobs etc.
 
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