"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need help with my summer vacation-

Delta

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howdy,

so i'm probably gonna take a week off of work later in the summer and i figure that the best way to spend it is to actually get laid or at least exercise my madskillz... :)

basically i'm a recovering afc and have read a lot to reform, and acquire strategies and skills, worked out so my body is much better than it was (120lb weakling) and got my warddrobe ducks in a row.

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further detail: i am a man without a country... all my close friends (all two of them) are devoted christians. i am not. so i don't get the social exposure or access to their world (neither do i want it) and i have no wing men in mine. i'm basically alone in my world.
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even got to practice and apply my skills by going out with a girl at work though that went sour and now i'm back to ground zero.

but i'm literally all dressed up with nowhere to go.

i always thought that spending money on these dj courses were ridiculous but i see value now in at least being round up with others and being pointed to the right clubs and such.

i already live in los angeles... can anyone recommend a relatively affordable 'program' that will get me out there?

of course, free is better so if there are 'sarging' groups that i can sign up with, that would be a way to go as well.

thanks much.

delta
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rocky_mtn

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Have you read and tried the DJ Bootcamp? It works and has good advice.

Sarging coffee shops during the day is also a good way to meet women, and its not as awkward as going to a club at night solo.
 

GatorBait

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It would be great if there was an underground society of PUA's in each city and you could get together and meet a wingman. I've got some great friends, but none of them are incredibly savvy with the women or into sarging (at clubs and bars they usually disrupt and make my game weaker). Having a good wingman can help a lot when approaching groups of women.
 

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hey gator,

still... consider yourself lucky and continue to utilize your friends for clubs and bars.

at least you can GO to clubs and bars because of them! if they are not a resource of closing the sale, they allow you to 'get out there' in the first place.

there probably is a community of djs (probably not even very underground) in each city... perhaps put out a call for fellow adventurers here?


rocky,

will check out the dj bootcamp. but as for coffeeshops... i don't know where you guys live but here in l.a. either chicks are not lookin' to buy what i'm selling (possible) or when chicks are in the civilian world (bookstores, markets, etc) they're all business. no looking up... no smiles... nada.

delta
 
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