"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need help with my job...

deadmasterx

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I currently got myself a job, teaching History and Philosophy, and it's my first teacher job in a "big" school (a High School with a lot of students).

I'm not gonna lie, the organization of the school is awful, the principal and the heads of the school have absolutely no idea of what's going on there and I heard several cases (that the students told me) of teachers who just got in class and did nothing but sit down and scroll on their phones, sometimes not even going to class at all.

Because of that (and also because the students themselves are not that interested), the students doesn't know the basics of the basics, and I found myself having to teach a 3rd grader (last year of HS here) subjects that he was supposed to know from the 1st grade. Yes, I know, it's complicated.

Alright, now you know that the school I'm teaching isn't that compromised with education, but I am.

It's my first job teaching what I want (before, I was teaching languages), and the main challenge is giving hybrid classes. I don't know if that's a thing in your country, but hybric classes is kinda like giving both online and presential classes. Conection is always a problem, either ours or the students', and I truly do not believe this model is helping them at all.

I am not having any problems with my classes itself, the explanations are good and I'm seeing good results in the students. They do undestand me and tho most of them are kinda lazy, they can still be at least average in my classes. Still, I do wish to improve and be able to give better.

For the ones here who works in education, do you have any tips?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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