Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need help with inner game because of sex.

centurionlemas

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Hey Guys!

So I donated blood a while back and was not able to get hard for a girl, it was understandable. But since then I have not been able to get an erection for this girl [hb7] and we have tried 3 mores times throughout the last 2 months. I think it has something to do with the embarrassment of the first time and me not being able to perform but now the initial embarrassment is affecting my life ... I've lost a lot of self-esteem and confidence because of this, its truly affecting me internally.
So I was wondering if anyone had some advice to help with my inner-game? Or how to deal with sexual/social anxiety? Or anyone have a problem like this before? Thanks guys!! :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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centurionlemas said:
Hey Guys!

So I donated blood a while back and was not able to get hard for a girl, it was understandable. But since then I have not been able to get an erection for this girl [hb7] and we have tried 3 mores times throughout the last 2 months. I think it has something to do with the embarrassment of the first time and me not being able to perform but now the initial embarrassment is affecting my life ... I've lost a lot of self-esteem and confidence because of this, its truly affecting me internally.
So I was wondering if anyone had some advice to help with my inner-game? Or how to deal with sexual/social anxiety? Or anyone have a problem like this before? Thanks guys!! :confused:
Try doggy style, you're probably nervous cause it's your first time? Could be a million things. I couldn't get it up at the first attempt with my first, and @ the second attempt, I flipped her around and voila... haven't had any recurring problems since.

More posts on this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187588
 
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1-First thing you should realize is that its totally mental, not physical.
2-Get over the anxiety (dude its not a big deal at all, your making it way bigger than it is), just be relaxed around her and remember that you are the man and you've got this!...you've already won!..she wants you so bad that shes tried with you 4 times already (you have nothing to lose).
3-Try not masturbating for a week or so before you meet up with her again.
4-And also if you still are nervous and not fully hard, just take her head and make her give you a ******* until your hard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You seem close enough with her to do this. Find a comfortable place to lie down. Take a 10-15 minute nap. Have her wake you up with a kiss. You know where. Your mind won't have much time to worry about initial embarrassment at that point.

Once it's on, it's on for good. Good luck and stay protected..
 

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Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay... the purpose of foreplay is to get both of you in the mood. I know that when I go down on my lady it gets me ready in no time. And shes nice and wet so it's the perfect way to start the party.
 

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Have her stay over. Try again in the morning when you have morning wood.

Don't whack off for at least a week.

Do some running or other exercise regularly to really get the blood flowing.

Have her dress for you. Is there some outfit that really does it for you? Have her wear it.

Grip your junk with your fist firmly then slowly work the head in.
 

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Dissolve half a Viagra under your tongue. One fourth of one would probably work, too. Don't tell her about the pill. Your problem is all mental, anyway, so you'll never need more than a pill or two.
 
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