It's been about 6 months since I have last posted so I have a few things I wanted to share. I have definitely won some, lost some in these past months and here are some of the things I've taken away.
- Dating a female version of an AFC was great insight into the beta behavior that can turn one from hot to cold. Can't recall specifics right now but all the usual things...was too available, offered up way too much of herself and left no mystery, always tried to please way too much. In the end I told her I wasn't ready for anything and didn't want to see her get hurt.
- Dating a female version of an Alpha was great insight into where my game was still lacking. Ironically enough she gave me the "I don't want to see you get hurt". (I immediately thought of the George Castanza Seinfeld episode) Karma kings were smiling on that one. Her game was so tight it really threw me off for awhile and made me realize I have much more room to evolve.
- If a girls says she is a horrible liar; she isn't and she just did. Women like this lie through the passive behavior of omission.
- Dating a bartender is like dating a stripper. Every one of her co-workers probably wants to bang her and all of her customers do for sure. My confidence and inner game was strong until bad drug habits came into the picture. Addiction is a tough one to compete with. (Not to suggest that all strippers or bartenders are addicts).
Currently, I know I need to work on my inner-game more and I'm okay with that; however, I still need work on understand and passing **** tests as well as establishing/re-establishing my frame. I hear both of these things being used in passing but I can't seem to find definitive info on either. Would anyone be able to post some links or help better define/explain how I can work on understanding and getting better at both **** tests and framing? I've searched but I can only find it mentioned in passing.
Thanks
- Dating a female version of an AFC was great insight into the beta behavior that can turn one from hot to cold. Can't recall specifics right now but all the usual things...was too available, offered up way too much of herself and left no mystery, always tried to please way too much. In the end I told her I wasn't ready for anything and didn't want to see her get hurt.
- Dating a female version of an Alpha was great insight into where my game was still lacking. Ironically enough she gave me the "I don't want to see you get hurt". (I immediately thought of the George Castanza Seinfeld episode) Karma kings were smiling on that one. Her game was so tight it really threw me off for awhile and made me realize I have much more room to evolve.
- If a girls says she is a horrible liar; she isn't and she just did. Women like this lie through the passive behavior of omission.
- Dating a bartender is like dating a stripper. Every one of her co-workers probably wants to bang her and all of her customers do for sure. My confidence and inner game was strong until bad drug habits came into the picture. Addiction is a tough one to compete with. (Not to suggest that all strippers or bartenders are addicts).
Currently, I know I need to work on my inner-game more and I'm okay with that; however, I still need work on understand and passing **** tests as well as establishing/re-establishing my frame. I hear both of these things being used in passing but I can't seem to find definitive info on either. Would anyone be able to post some links or help better define/explain how I can work on understanding and getting better at both **** tests and framing? I've searched but I can only find it mentioned in passing.
Thanks