"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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need help with example of ****y and funny

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well this girl in my class who i talk to sometimes asked to add me on myspace.. so i accepted. she left a comment saying "hi put me as number 2 on your friends list".

what should i reply back with? her message seems like she thinks im an AFC what about you guys.

this isnt to get her or anything because she is in a relationship, i just want to know a good example of C+F for this situation.

thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A simple "If you want it that bad you better start showin me your different to everyone else who wants that slot" should do the trick. It's not really C+F but it does give some DHV and if she asks who else wants the slot you can send her a list of every dog's name you can think of. Thats what I'd do in that situation anyway.

I can't seem to think of any C+F to such a short message without any background to her, maybe just a blank day for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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um haha??

lol..

Anyways I put 'why would i make someone #2 if they hate me?'
 
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You know, a **** is a number 2.

Yours was terrible, sorry.
 
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DamHE said:
um haha??

lol..

Anyways I put 'why would i make someone #2 if they hate me?'
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you could have done better

atleast asking "What do I get in return?" could have possibly got you SOMETHING in return
 
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post your myspace page and hers...if you show us what she looks like we'l tell you if she's worth it
 
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