"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need help with example of ****y and funny

DamHE

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well this girl in my class who i talk to sometimes asked to add me on myspace.. so i accepted. she left a comment saying "hi put me as number 2 on your friends list".

what should i reply back with? her message seems like she thinks im an AFC what about you guys.

this isnt to get her or anything because she is in a relationship, i just want to know a good example of C+F for this situation.

thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A simple "If you want it that bad you better start showin me your different to everyone else who wants that slot" should do the trick. It's not really C+F but it does give some DHV and if she asks who else wants the slot you can send her a list of every dog's name you can think of. Thats what I'd do in that situation anyway.

I can't seem to think of any C+F to such a short message without any background to her, maybe just a blank day for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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um haha??

lol..

Anyways I put 'why would i make someone #2 if they hate me?'
 

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You know, a **** is a number 2.

Yours was terrible, sorry.
 

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DamHE said:
um haha??

lol..

Anyways I put 'why would i make someone #2 if they hate me?'
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you could have done better

atleast asking "What do I get in return?" could have possibly got you SOMETHING in return
 

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post your myspace page and hers...if you show us what she looks like we'l tell you if she's worth it
 
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