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Need help with emailing a chick!

donjuan_jr

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Hi guys,
Recently a friend passed to me an email of his sisters friend. He told me his sis has already informed her friend about me and that I will be emailing her soon. The problem that I am facing is:-

1) I don't have her picture! I am not trying to be shallow or anything, (I don't expect a model, just a decent looking chick will be fine ;)). How do you think should I go about getting her picture? I was thinking of inviting her to join facebook. Is that a good idea?

2) I am a shy person, especially when it comes to expressing myself in emails! (not so bad when I meet someone face 2 face) So what do you think I should write in the email?

I plan to only email her in about 3 or 4 days time, since I don't want to look like a desperado!

Thanks guys :up:
 

speed dawg

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Pretty sure you aren't 25, and if you are, this isn't a topic that should be discussed in a mature man forum.

I'd tell your friend to introduce her to you, and go from there. Good grief.
 

donjuan_jr

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Is there a rule that says that we have to be all upthight and speak the queens english in the "mature" forum?

Look, I don't know whats up your a$$ but I suggest you take out your frustration at someone else.

And why the hell should I lie about my age? If I were younger then 25, I would have posted in the other sub-forum (maybe the people there would have been more helpful and friendly!) If you have no interest in helping, then don't!

To the moderators, if I have done anything wrong (maybe the tone of my post gave the impression that I wasn't serious) the pls do let me know.

speed dawg said:
Pretty sure you aren't 25, and if you are, this isn't a topic that should be discussed in a mature man forum.

I'd tell your friend to introduce her to you, and go from there. Good grief.
 

tx_xp

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Just send her a quick email saying hello to her a few quick things about you and what you like. Include your pic and say hey in case you are wondering my pic is attached and I would love to see yours too.
 

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quick, straight to the point email. sh*t or get off the pot.

"Hey friend of a friend of whoever. My sisters friend says you're pretty cool and we might click. Lets get together for a cup of coffee to see if she's right. Which is better, next tues at 4pm, or wed at 2 pm? I'm pretty busy so I only have about an hour each time."

if she doesn't immediately agree to either suggestion, nor offer a counter.....

NEXT
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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